If the woman I have been dating breaks it off with me as expected (she told me she loved me, is married, but insisted she would get divorced) and stays with her husband, should I forward him the emails she sent me about how much she loved me and wanted to be with me? Is revenge sweet?
2006-11-09 02:47:24 · 23 answers · asked by EchoCharlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She chased me for 4 months before I gave in. I even went with her to see a divorce lawyer. I'm not the first person she has cheated on him with, and he does know about me, but I suspect she has left out some details.
2006-11-09 03:15:41 · update #1
what will be the advantage of taking revenge on her?you must be mad at her but even by doing this you wont feel good..revenge is not sweet ,it turns against you and makes you feel worse than now ...just let her go and never be with a married woman .there are many nice girls for a guy like you ...good luck!
2006-11-09 02:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, revenge is sweet, but what will you really get out of it, other than her hating you or maybe making it public. Sometimer revenge hurts the revenger. Take caution in what you do and I know it may suck now, but everything we do in life makes us who we are and hopefully we learn something. Don't date a married person with expectations. If you're going to do it, do it for fun, keep the feelings out of it that way you don't get hurt when they don't leave their spouse. Try just moving on and finding someone that will love you and be with just you. Thats the biggest revenge when she sees you with someone else.
2006-11-09 10:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Elvira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge might be sweet, but the taint on your character will be permanent; any woman you have a relationship with, for the rest of your life, will not trust you - more likely, if news of that act ever made it out into your social circles, you would never date again, much less get a girlfriend.
Do as you wish, but you're going to sleep in whatever bed you make, be it warm or cold.
2006-11-09 10:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being angry, but show some class and forego the revenge - it only demeans you. The best revenge would be to find someone better than the woman who dumped you. If you were to get your revenge - it might be sweet until the husband looked you up and took out his displeasure on a wife-stealer with a baseball bat.
2006-11-09 10:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't we all love revenge, i have dated a married man who said he would leave his wife for me when i eventually found out, i think you feel that way because you have been hurt. you need to weigh it up, do they have children? what will happen if he finds out will it mean trouble 4 u, i sugest you cut all ties with that person and move on, i know it's hard but i guess thats the way the cookie crumbles!
2006-11-09 10:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, dont do that, you will be just as bad as she is!!! and did you really think she was going to leave everything behind to be with you, life unfortunatlly doesnt work that wasy i am afraid!
But next time, maybe go for thesingle woman, you wont have this problem!!!
Good luck! and be a better person then she is!!!!
2006-11-09 10:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Simone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a man, and just bow out. Revenge, ends up hurting you more. Don't be childish, and try and get her back, just leave her alone. Find the lady of your dreams.
2006-11-09 10:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away, you have nothing to gain from this, and I feel later on you will regret it. Just chalk it up to a bad choice in your life. Find a nice girl who is single, tends to work out a little better.
2006-11-09 10:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it. Do it. She is a cheating hussy and if she has cheated on him and lied to you...she is staying with hubby because of $$$. Forward the emails because she is going to give him stds. He needs to know. Don't listen to all of these feminist man haters replies.
2006-11-09 10:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are a sick little boy who needs therapy on why he can't function in a real relationship that has risks and must go for a married woman he has no business touching.
2006-11-09 10:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋