2006-11-09 02:24:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i would have to say lack of communication and money.but if you have the first all should work out.by the way it is ok to disagree with spouse.cause as time goes on both views will change.and why sweat the small stuff.keep it open and honest
2006-11-09 02:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by t s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having been divorced myself, communication, money, mistrust, physical, emotional, and mental abuse, dishonesty, cheating, and just growing apart. If you do not have communication and mistrust you have nothing. You may still love your partner but you just can't get along. My ex and I are still good friends mainly because of our kids. There will never be enough money so why argue about it. Being a victim of abuse, if you have ever been hit or screamed at or belittled get out now because it will only get worse. I survived 14 yrs of abuse. If your spouse is cheating get out because no matter how many times they say it will never happen again, it will. once a cheater always a cheater. If your spouse lies to you they will tell you one lie to cover up another and pretty soon it will snow ball and you will not beable to determine which is the truth and which is a lie.
2006-11-09 02:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by miamac49616 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor communication
If one partner feels rejected at every turn before long they will stop asking and go their own way. There will never be all the money to buy everything, at some point money is always an issue but so what if you work together it will be better that working alone. Never go to bad angry, talk it out. The silent treatment doesn't work, it just makes the other person angrier. Always communicate!!!!!!
2006-11-09 03:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by medic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer Lola19050!
If you are not totally committed to making a marriage work it won't. Marriage is a union between two people and it takes two people to make it work. It takes patience, honesty, openness, trust, love, friendship, forgiveness, meeting halfway and much more. If you are not committed to making your marriage work and you are not consistent it will be hard.
Most people these days do not want to put forth the effort ot make a lasting relationship work. Most people are to stuck on "me" to see what it takes to make a marriage work. Most people think it is easier to walk away rather than to put what it takes into a marriage to make it work.
2006-11-09 02:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage.
2006-11-09 02:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by minijumbofly 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Poor communication
Money
Unrealistic expectations (when they first get married, so after a while when reality sinks in they don’t like it)
Growing apart
Not having together time (I think that married people should spend at least day a month, having together time with each other)
Ease of divorce
2006-11-09 03:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised that nobody mentioned (I could have missed it) family conflicts. Often when a spouse will not stand up to his or her family members who are meddling or otherwise causing trouble, it causes marriage problems.
2006-11-09 06:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by CincyJen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money issues.
Not understanding each other completely.
Mis or lack of communication.
Having child like ideas of marriage.
Read a book called "Lies at the Alter". It can answer that question for you clearly.
2006-11-09 03:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by alysiallen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly think that it is from having a one-sided marriage.That would mean one person does all the work,(on the marriage) then when they are tired,they are done......
2006-11-09 07:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money, substance abuse, cheating. Different values regarding how to raise the kids.
2006-11-09 05:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Double 709 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋