ok theres a new kid at school and he keeps smiling at me everytime he sees me and every girl in the whole middle school likes him and i do to and what should i do? plus i got a boyfreind but me and him are gettign old
2006-11-09 02:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you dump your boyfriend if you don't want to be with him.
Second, you spend some time getting over your dumped boyfriend and figure out what it is you really want.
Third, then you date other people.
2006-11-09 02:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say just stay back from the crowd and let the whole "fan club" group burn itself out on the new guy, who I figure looks like Johnny Depp in 21 Jump Street. Remember, Depp was playing an underground cop in that show . . .
And as to the boyfriend who is "getting old," talk out your problems with him now, and decide what you both want, before you go pursuing Johnny Depp. After all, that's what everyone else is doing. How are you going to be any different except by more-or-less ignoring him? If someone gushes to you about how cute he is, say something non-committal, like "he's OK, I guess."
And I wasn't kidding about that underground cop part. Wait a while with new people. It's valid in these paranoid times we live in.
2006-11-09 10:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the saying: "The grass is always greener..."?
Bottom line: Breaking up with your current boyfried, and going after this new guy, should be a seperate thought process.
That is, if you don't like your boyfriend, breakup, but not because you think this other one is hotter. It just does not make sense in the long run.
Additionally, think of why you want to do this? How much do you really know about the new kid? Are you feeling this way just becuse he is new? Or just becuse others want him?
You may find after you do it that you wish you hadn't and the fact is that you will not be able to change it after you do it.
My advice is to wait it out, and use the time to figure out why you would talk about your boyfriend like that, and go from there.
2006-11-09 10:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Scott D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, is decide what you want to do with your current boyfriend. Do not start anything with the new boy until you are actually free to do so. Either break things off with your bf or decide to keep him and stay honest and loyal. If you decide to break things off, smile back at the new guy, say hello, have real conversation with him. Take things slow, let him get to know you and you him to make sure that you like him for more than just looks. Who knows he may be a jerk. But again make sure your decision about your current bf is how you are feeling with him not just the hopes of this other guy or everything could possibly blow up in your face.
2006-11-09 10:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The luxury of being young........you can be friends with whoever you want to and can date whoever you want to.
Get to know the new guy and if he is someone you have the right feelings for, go for it.....NOT stepping on anyone in the process though! It is not right to have a boyfriend stolen from someone else.
Be careful too, he might be a big player....if all the girls like him, some will be ruthless and back stabbing to get him.....that is the way of the world.
Re-think what about your present bf that you like and don't like....you might find he is still the one for you.
2006-11-09 10:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by novamanassas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you are way too young to want an exclusive relationship with any boy. Enjoy your life, get a good education a great job and then think about dating. You won't regret it. Take it from an experienced woman who made those same mistakes.
2006-11-09 10:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by tmp326 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's middle school ditch the dud and get with the new guy Do you really think it will matter 5 years from now. just be nice about the break up. You might not have a sure thing with the new guy
2006-11-09 10:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is in middle school--no way should you be dating someone-you are to young. Wait until you are about 16 and a little more mature-then maybe you can date again.
2006-11-09 11:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take offense but you are too young to be worrying about boyfriends. Concentrate on your classes, on spending time with your friends, on getting into high school. Middle school is stressful enough without guy drama.
2006-11-09 10:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly with the new guy and maybe even a little flirtatious. See if there is anything there. If it looks like the new guy might be interested in pursuing you, then dust old guy like a bean field.
2006-11-09 10:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋