My grandma passed away last week and as soon as my ex heard he called to see if i was ok. Ever since he will not stop calling me. I think he wants to get back together because he keeps telling me he loves me but i am HAPPY in my new relationship. what should i do cause part of me want to be with my ex?
2006-11-09 02:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Rissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the ex thank you for your care and that he really needs to respect that you are in a relationship now by not calling so often and currently not for a while. Tell your current boyfriend the ex's re-presence and the confusion his has invited. Your current boyfriend may rattle, however if you care about him he will respect you for respecting him. If you need to step back a wee to sort yourself out then be honest about that. Also, be honest with yourself about the ex's possible back on the chase for you? Remember for men "especially young" it is all about the chase and if that is truly what he is up to, it for the most part is because you appear to be taken. Immature men try and go for something they think they can not have to prove something to them self. You appear to be something he can not have. What is more desirable for a young man still needing a boost ego. Careful you don't flatter yourself too much with his "resurfaced want" for you. It really is not all about you. And be careful you don't just jump ship on they guy you are with because- It just feels good to be wanted. Cause trust me girl. When you go back, you'll get a swift whammy before too long of why your not together with the 'EX' in the first place.
2006-11-09 02:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Buckey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was really nice of him too call you and make sure you were okay.. But if you are in a new relationship and you are happy, then forget about him.
That part of you that feels you want him back? Don't pay any attention to it. If it didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time around. So why screw up a good thing you have going now?
2006-11-09 10:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by confusedone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a new relationship this could be potentially dangerous. I suggest talking to your new partner, tell him whats happening and ask if he knows how to stop it.
Alternatively, if you cannot do that, tell your ex that you are happy and do not want him constantly calling you. If he continues I would consider notifying the police because it can be considered as stalking
2006-11-09 10:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r boyfriend is trying to gain u r attention by using the circumstance...and is making u feel like he wants to patch up well.. i dont know why u broke up in the first place ...but if it is someting to do with him that led to your breaking up then he is trying to get the bridge made by using u r grandmothers dimise....if u r happy with u r present bf and compare him with u r ex bf and analyse their weakness and strengths and u will certainly be able to decide who is worth stiking up with. the bottom line is u need a secure and content life as a female....well choose who can give u that! dont get carried away by emotions!
2006-11-09 10:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by kaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move forward if you are happy with your current relationship, and remember why your ex is an ex....
2006-11-09 10:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you want to be with your ex just remember why hes your ex and things you don't like about him.
2006-11-09 10:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time to figure out what u want, tell ur ex the truth about wat is going on but stay honest with ur current relationship...time is the only thing that can help clear things up
2006-11-09 10:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your happy with your new man right? dont go back to heart ache! it aint worht it! stay with what you got now and enjoy being happy!!!
2006-11-09 10:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by lil nic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋