really dont love them. This is a long story but a started dating a guy because i felt sorry and i dont really love him like he thinks how do i tell him without hurting him. No im not in middle school here im 19.
2006-11-09 02:10:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be selfish, when he could be with someone right now that loves him more than anything................
tell him, I found someone else
or, It's not you it's me
start a fight with him, and get him to get mean, then break up.............
do anything, just don't do this to him...........
2006-11-09 02:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you meant well, but what Iv'e come to understand is that you cant please everyone! Although many times you mean well, but you can also turn out the problem. Now you don't have a choice. You can A. tell him the truth and get it over with or B. Stay with him and give up ur happiness. If you choose B. then you really do love him.
2006-11-09 10:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him you are just prolonging the inevitable. Sit him down, tell him that you like him (if you do) but that you don't love him. Make it quick. The longer you go the worst the hurt for him will be.
2006-11-09 10:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to let him know. there is no way of telling him with out hurting him. you should let him know now before its to late. i do the same thing that u did. be with someone cuz u feel bad. but the crazy thing is that i end up likeing them in the end. it kinda like i learn to like them. if u dont want to face out brake up with him. then you just give him a reason to break up with u.
2006-11-09 10:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by lil duce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth about not loving him. It will hurt him less in the end.
You don't have to tell him why you started dating him. If he asks you can tell him something that you do like about him, ie.. his smile, laugh, eyes,
2006-11-09 10:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oooooooooooo high school, thats a lot better, so you lead a guy on, date him but dont love him. I hope no one ever does this to you in return
2006-11-09 10:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and look him in the eye and tell him you are sorry you did that and ask his forgiveness. Just don't be surprised if you don't get it right away..... Good luck.
2006-11-09 10:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him...sometimes it is far better to get out of a relationship than to stay in one that is not working. And, stay out of his bed.
2006-11-09 10:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND ONLY
2006-11-09 10:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward with him. For both of you.
2006-11-09 10:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kanakili_Uiilani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋