A family member and his brother have a problem with prescription drugs. One of the wives decides to tell the mother of the brothers whats really going on. There are children involved.
Is she wrong?
2006-11-09 01:54:44 · 17 answers · asked by psychstudent 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Good for the wife! She should stand up for her kids! There is a problem and she is solving it...
2006-11-09 03:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she would not be wrong for telling the mother. She of course would make her husband and his brother angry at her. But there needs to be an intervention, which cannot happen if the right people don't know what's going on. You have to look at the big picture, which is the well being of the children... turning your head the other way and keeping quiet doesn't help anyone.
2006-11-09 10:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by The Raven † 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she's not wrong what if something goes really bad and those children get caught in the middle and maybe even killed. Those children are the most important thing and how they're being taken care of and i wouldn't want to think that she knew something was going on and kept it to herself until it was too late. She has every right to speak up.
2006-11-09 10:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if there are children involved that raises it to a whole new level. I guess if the wife couldn't handle it herself and she knew the mother would have an impact than I would say she is right to go for help that she needs.
2006-11-09 09:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she's doing the right thing. When there is innocent children and drugs in the same sentence, people must speak up and sort things out for the childrens sake and get their a$$e$ into gear.
2006-11-09 09:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the wife may feel she needs more help than she herself can provide. A woman has everyright in the world to protect her children at any cost. She is not wrong at all.
2006-11-09 09:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Becca P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO when someone has a problem, they need help and they need to know that they have some support from the famlily.
I have members of my family who have problems and i have stood behind them all the way.
so good luck
2006-11-09 09:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by mother of 7! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be possible to talk to the guys first to express your concern, and how do you think the mother would handle the situation? could she cope with it, if you think she could then she should know but it`s very difficult with children involved.
2006-11-09 10:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Not at all addressing problems head on is the first step towards resolution.
2006-11-09 09:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all someone needs to get involved drugs are a problem and kids and drugs are a bigger problem so tell away
2006-11-09 09:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋