if you have some experience in this area, help me!!!!
2006-11-09 01:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Sami Superpoderosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to pursue him, let him know that you are interested and flirt with him in a conservative way but be paitent and he'll come around! When I met my husband he was 26, quiet, shy and never had a girlfried! It took me over a week to get him to kiss me. He needs you to make all the moves and be gentle with him, take your time, the shy ones are the men with the good hearts, the keepers!
2006-11-09 01:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Born Country 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest dating shy guys are some what a real challenge....so unless your up for the challenge go right ahead....you just have to do more work that's all. But letting him know that you like him is a start, and most of all reassurance is key always to help him come out of his shell so to speak.
2006-11-09 09:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the one who was always kinda shy or backwards, as some have said, when I was younger. This was because of my lack of confidence that a girl would even like me like I liked her. I take it you are already going out with him, so take it slow and build his confidence. It will take some time, but with a little patients and encouragement, he'll snap out of it. I did. Took me a long time. But I now can get out there and shake it off with my love when she wants to get out on the dance floor, It's not really pretty, but she likes it !!!... GL.... Admire this feature because you will miss it when it goes. Trust me !!
2006-11-09 09:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys are usually good in bed. Oops, did I say that? LMAO. Just approach him and introduce yourself. Ask him if he would like to go out sometime. That's it. Be straight forward, no beating around the bush. Good luck.
2006-11-09 09:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by suchaprettyface11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just assume that i am a shy guy!!! i would expect you to invite me out for a dinner....i would want you to do all the talking....i would i would want you to kiss me ...u see i have a problem with starting off...but once it is started u cant stop me...thats how it is with a shy guy!! u do the starting and i will continue until u say stop!!!!
2006-11-09 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by kaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a shy person just give it time he will open up to you when he feels comfortable.
2006-11-09 09:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you would date a guy who was loud and obnoxious.
2006-11-09 09:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should try telling him to speak up and say what he feels..or just tell him you like an outgoing person not too shy.he might come out of it...maybe he just has to get used to you.
2006-11-09 09:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i have soooooooo much experiance in the subj. umm its hard but try to make him comfortable
2006-11-09 09:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda Fay! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy and my name is Sam!!!!
2006-11-09 10:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by sexyguyno16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋