ive been seeing this guy for the past few days and we have so much in common and the last couple times weve been hanging out weve been cuddled up together we hook up alot and its just great. thing is, im just about 16 hes 20. yesterday he goes since weve been hanging out so much and weve been doing this, ive been meaning to ask you something. like what would you consider us to be? and i really had no idea so i told him, i dont know. he starts saying how he really likes me but he doesnt want a serious relationship because 1)he just got out of a huge one (the girls still all attached and its kinda creepy cause shes all getting info about me because shes pissed i hang out with this kid cause she still likes him) and 2) because after this summer hes prolly going out of state to a bigger college. and then hes like, i really like you and i know if we keep hanigng out liek this ill like you even more. and i dont want it to seem like im using you because imnot, i really lik eyou.
2006-11-09 01:46:10 · 13 answers · asked by LongingForYourTouch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and then the conversation didnt really go anywhere cause i totally wasnt expecting that and didnt know what to say. so im not really sure what this means...
2006-11-09 01:47:08 · update #1
well, since you both like each other why not enjoy the time you r spending together and take each day at a time, don't think of the future cos u r both so young and u have plans to go to college(him) and to finish school(u) so just hang out together and have fun.
2006-11-09 01:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, no reflection on you, but you have to wonder about a guy that can't hang with women his own age. Secondly, he sees that you're getting attached and doesn't want to get serious with you.
Third, if you're not absolutely sure how someone feels about you, or if they're not willing to spend time getting to know you, don't give it up so soon! You don't know enough about this guy to know where he's been and what he's really like. He knew from the beginning that he would be going out of state to go to school. Then there's the whole deal with his ex.
Stop seeing him; there's way too much drama and he's not going to get serious with you. Also, if you haven't already, go get tested for HIV and STDs. You don't know this dude will enough to trust anything he says.
2006-11-09 09:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much all he's telling you is that he wants a summer fling. He's in college,girl. He even said he's moving out of state. So, why would you want to be tied down to a college boy, who will probably never call you when he goes back to school. He'll probably never even come and see you on weekends. If I were you I would let him now that your not wanting to get hurt by him up and leaving, so staying just friends and hooking up is about all that's going to happen. If you really think about it, that's probably the best,so you don't get hurt!
2006-11-09 09:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 16 also and she was in such a hurry to grow up and play house that now she is pregnant. Honey you really should put the boy thing off for awhile and do something good for yourself like your education. Be the best that you can be and when your older you'll be educated,successful and Mr terrific will come your way.
2006-11-09 09:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I will make this as simple as possible.
Translation:
Its been fun thanks for everything, but I am done with you as soon as I hit college. Thanks for the sex.
That is as short as I can make it, yes it is mean but thats what all the extra words hide. I just thought I'd let you know so even if you are upset atleast you will learn.
2006-11-09 09:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bleed the Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going away to college and its not even serious now...........And his ex is still kind of attached then i would leave it just the way it is now before one of you ends up getting hurt..........just leave it as friends...........i mean yeah he may like you but the age gap is another issue.......sweetie you are still a kid dont get serios right now.......enjoy the teen years
2006-11-09 09:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by mommabree04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means for you to run away before you get used.
2006-11-09 09:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off you are too young to be dateing him and you need to fiend someone thats around ur age hun all he sounds like he wants se sex i would leave him and don't look back
2006-11-09 09:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by ASHLEY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to worry about crap like this. go out with the girlfriends and have fun. if he cant find someone his own age, he has issues.
2006-11-09 09:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means stay away from him and find someone ur own age.
If ur having sex, he could be arrested because ur under age.
2006-11-09 09:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋