I have a guy friend who I thought flirted with me at times and I thought liked me and I liked him. Now, it is to the point of I really don't like him because he cannot admit his responsiblity in it. He is making me looking the one in the wrong. He is known for womanizing I really did not know this until recently. I doubt we can be friends now. I really don't trust him. I am trying to let it go but it bothers me because we are in bible study classes together and it is a big reminder for me. He thinks a lot of himself and does not really care what others feel like, that has been my impression of him over time. Any suggestions?
2006-11-09 01:39:29 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just do. Remind yourself of what you've said here:
He's untrustworthy; he's a womanizer; he's a tease; he's manipulative; he's conceited. All this and probably flunking bible study just by his actions...
With all that, you should be THRILLED that you found out when you did and that things didn't go any further. That would be enough to make me do a back-flip!
2006-11-09 01:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i have been goin through the same thing for the passed 8-9 months...the guy that broke my heart lives in the same small town as i do...i see him almost every day! I think the best medicine is to find someone new and special..i know its hard and it doesnt happen right away but hang on girl...Mr Right will come along and yo u will beable to look back on that and just laugh! take care
2006-11-09 09:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Swiss Escapes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive gone trew the same thing. It really takes a while corny but true; only time can heel a broken heart. my was ex is in most of my classes last year and i had to look at him every day,its never easy but find a new friend in this bible class and pretend he never existed
-hope that helps,kaylakat
2006-11-09 09:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by kaylakat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I have the same problem (believe it or not). What I've learned is that if he is treating you this way and not even knowing it then he's not mature enough to handle a serious relationship. Above all things put God first in your life and don't worry about the rest :) Psalm 105:4
P.S. drinking doesn't solve problems, it just adds to them.
2006-11-09 09:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by dizzymisslizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear ,Its not really important that you see him in the class ,act like he's a friend even just a classmate and try to know other guys and forget about him .simply he's not ur type and you need someone to comfort you .there are many for you ,so when you and him are in the same class or when you see him around just ignore him .
2006-11-09 09:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink heavily
2006-11-09 09:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to concentrate on it
it will only make it worse
just kep wit got
hees all you need
2006-11-09 09:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋