How can I get my girl to open up? (not sexually idiots)?

Question

weve broke up several times because everytime I get close to her, she keeps her guards up and starts a fight and it usually ruins the relationship. I tell her I love her and its hard for her to respond back. The only time Ive had real talk with her is after we have sex.

Answer 1

She may have issues regarding many things....She may not know how to open up. Tell her that she is safe with you and will not judge anything that she tells you. That you just want to get closer to her.