My Ex won't leave me alone even though she finnished with me months ago. I still love her deeply but I am getting too hurt by seeing her. So last night when she turned up without warning I told her that I did not love her anymore and I wanted her to leave. She looked shocked at first but then said she was happy that I have moved on. I asked he to leave and she did. Now I feel bad that I lied to her about my feelings to get her to leave. Should I contact her to explain and tell her I do still love her or stick with my decision?
2006-11-09 01:02:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to her. Explain your feelings and concerns and hopefully she'll still feel the same way. But, I do get the feeling that she can't have loved you that much to begin with, or she wouldn't have dumped you in the first place. Sorry, mate.
Good luck.
2006-11-09 01:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? What in the world do you think? I honestly find these kinds of questions a waste of time. If someone told you they didn't love YOU anymore, how would YOU react? It's silly to ponder this question when you know that if this person still has feelings for you, they will be hurt.
2016-05-22 00:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this qns, if u don't call her and tell her about how you feel, would you regret it later in your life. If u do, then why not do thing that you will not regret someday. At least have a heart to heart talk with her about how you feel. If she really meant to break up with you, at least you have told her about your feelings and you have got the ans without any regret right? Be truthful with your feeling, by dropping by to see u, she may still care for you as friend or she may still love you. Just try talking to her.
2006-11-09 01:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huny am so sori that u love her so muchthat it hurt 2 see her leave, but at the end of the day she broke it off and may be she was not sure either. If she still come to see u mayb she still care talk to her and know where u stand before u hurt your self any longer. Good luck
2006-11-09 01:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by bintaj01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if she does not have the same feelings and ideas of a relationship with you. You must stick to your decision, or allow her to play with your feelings and emotions. Get moving forward and find someone who appreciates you and has the same ideas of what a relationship is about. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-09 01:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nathan, Nathan Nathan! I am a woman - but in the same situation with my ex boyfriend as you are with your ex girlfirend. Broke up with my ex boyfriend over a year ago now - but occassionally he flits back to me. I love him more than life itself - sad as i am - but quickly learnt that the reason he came back to me was because every now and then he needed abit of an ego trip. To know that they can walk back and you will be there for them at a drop of a hat means that they will always do it as long as you let them.
I am by no means over my ex AT ALL in fact but last time he did it to me - i told him that it was to happen no more and that I too did not love him anymore. It broke my heart to say something that i know was and is not true
He broke up with me for a reason and as much as i would love to make him be bang in love with me it's never going to happen. So i have picked myself up and dusted myself down. Do anything you can to get her out your head - but move on.
Someone told me once that to get a rainbow you must endure a little rain - trust me - my ex has let it pour down on me. Chanel you love into something or someone that will give it back to you the way that you deserve. Stop letting her hurt you - be brave and stick to you guns - have no more contact with her!
xxxx
2006-11-09 01:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lost??Please Help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stick to your guns she looked shocked because she was probably messing with your head. You deserve better she shouldn't keep turning up without warning because you won't be able to move on and she knows this.Some women are players too.
2006-11-09 01:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your decision and move on, living in the past or with false hope will only make you unhappy.
2006-11-09 01:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt it just the worse feeling......i am going thru the same.....i told my bf to leave....in my heart it hurts cause i love him alot...we were together 6 and a half years...but i feel he doesnt love me anymore....but since he knows i will always be there for him he takes advantage of that..........though i wanted him here...i had to get rid of him.....it killed me everytime i told him leave....hoping that things will change.....but i guess you just have to deal with the hurt...it will blow over.....if you tell her you love her....you's will b back to the same reason why you broke up in the first place...for some reason your not together....let it go.....i know its easier said then done...cause i need to take that same advice....im in your spot too.....go hang out....and have fun...good luck
2006-11-09 06:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by mspain719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts you to see her, and she doesnt want to be with you, I'd leave it as it is and stick to your decision. Let your heart have some time to heal then call and see if she wants to hang just as friends
2006-11-09 01:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋