i live with my boyfriend,we have been together just over two years and we are also engaged. but for the last 5 months he has been very secretive with me.hiding his phone and phone bills,not telling me about his nights out and taking girls numbers.whats he up to?
2006-11-09 00:51:37 · 19 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
he is sleeping with 3 other women
2006-11-09 00:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by The brainteaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds possible that he is cheating or hiding something else he does not want you to know. Best thing to do is to have a chat with him and talk things through, make sure to give the reasons why you are asking him, ie hides phone and bills etc. If he is taking girls phone numbers and he knows you know he is obviously very cruel and rubbing the fact in your face. Definatly want to get rid of him and find someone who is trustworthly and loyal that you deserve. xx
2006-11-09 00:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by CrayzeeKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his phone when he is sleeping. you have to stay awake unitl he falls aslepp and i mean wait until like 1:00am or 2:00am when he is deep asleep. Get his phone and go into the bathroom or a room with a lock. Lock the door as soon as you get in the room. Open and go through
-text messages
-Incoming calls
-Outgoing Calls
-Phone numbers or contacts.
If you don't find anything which it seems as you will go through his pants pockets, and go through his wallet too when he is sleeping. He might have hid some numbers in there.
If all this fails find out where he is clubbing or out one night and go with a friend and spy on him.
good luck and be prepared of what you need from your home and what you have to do if this is true and you need to move out.
2006-11-09 00:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant really accuse someone of doing something with no proof but it all sounds a bit funny to me hun!! you should get it out in the open but dont go mad as he could be innocent. trust is a key thing in a happy long relationship, the more you keep your feelings in the worse it will get... if you find something you dont like then get rid, he aint the one for you and theres loadsa decent guys , im yet to find one but thats a different story ha ha good luck x
2006-11-09 01:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's out in Southport, There is a lot of loose women there and I don't mean bad women, Just give him enough rope as the saying goes, and stick with the precautions until you know.
Good Luck!
2006-11-11 07:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by ?Master 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit dodgy! Its not right hiding his phone from you- no wonder you are thinking he might be cheating. Wait til he's in shower and check his phone! sounds sad but you have a right to know after all he is ur future hubby. Better to find out now than later if he is. lucky snooping! hope he ain't tho!
2006-11-09 00:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by BLONDESHELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is.
Who you trying to fool, and why have you taken so long to deal with it?
I'm not saying you should kick him out, that's your decision depending to what extent it's happening.
Email me obzi@yahoo.com and i'll tell u how to get a copy his phone bill if he's on contract, i can't put it on here.
Get your hard evidence all together, all the facts, and confront him.
2006-11-09 00:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 23:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...............
If a guy hides his phone and his in and outbox of his messages is always clear then face it he is mos certainly cheating!!!! No two ways about it the phone and the not telling should tell you something, with all the diseases going around get rid of him and move on.................. he is telling you lies
2006-11-09 01:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by clinton o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something that he is not happy with. Are you happy?
Be true to yourself. If you dont stand for yourself then who else would want to? Do not marry. When you do it should be with a man you love and trust.
2006-11-09 00:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋