i always communicate with him on internet, but have not seen him
2006-11-09 00:47:27 · 16 answers · asked by babydoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is more than just being with a person. You could make an argument that if the two of you are being completely honest with each other you can get to know each other a lot better and deeper than if you were together in person. When you love someone and its the kinda love that lasts, you love who they are and what they do and the things they say to you. What they look like is important, spending time with them will and should become important, but its not what counts. Who they are is what counts and that's what you fall in Love with.
2006-11-09 00:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by cannoninthehouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babydoo, the place where you meet someone you love doesn't matter much. The most important aspect is what you've established - LOVE. What really brought about that love - both of you having things in common. Therefore you see things, think, and talk the same way, and you're happy for that - I guess. I can assure you that you'll meet physically some day. And that will just solidify what's already on ground but not in anyway add anything to the foundation which you've already laid. To me, yours is a success story, and keep it up regardless of any criticism. Cheers and best of luck.
2006-11-09 00:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You love the way he makes you feel, but I doubt that its real love.
I did some online dating befor I got married. It was easy to be attracted to someone you chat with online. Meeting them is the only way to see if there is really a spark there or not.
But love is even more than just attraction, more than how a person makes you feel.
It is the willingness to be with that person even if he has a stroke and you have to change his diaper for the rest of your life. THAT is real love.
2006-11-09 00:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that you have never seen? He could be filling your head with a whole lot of crap. He might say he is one age and be another. Telling you all about himself and it could be a whole different story. I would be very careful and cautious.
2006-11-09 00:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly think that you love somone you have never met? I really doubt it is love. It's probably not love, but infatuation. Somtimes people are so hungry for attention that they think they love the first person who talks to them. Sit back and rethink. Do you honestly really love this guy?
2006-11-09 00:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get webcams set up and see each other, and have some fun over the internet... ;)
2006-11-09 00:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love the idea or the illussion of being with him. Which is not necessarily better or worse than being in love with someone who is physically present.
What matters is you enjoy what you do.
2006-11-09 00:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by CulturedQuant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he seems interesting online, but if you actually met him you'd see him for who he really was.
2006-11-09 00:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, this person may not be who they say they are. things like this can go terribly wrong.
2006-11-09 00:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy_L_B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where does he live ?
2006-11-09 00:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋