there's this guy that's very nice to me whenever i see him and he tells me he'll call me to hang out but doesn't call and when i call him sometimes he doesn't answer or return the call!!
2006-11-09 00:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by breeze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure he's not a very busy person? Is he already seeing someone else? Other than that I can only think of two answers: 1) You're coming across as too needy somehow and scaring him away.....
2) Sorry to say, he might not like you much, or just not that way.
If it was me I would act very nonchalant about it. Don't call too much, and say you've been busy if he asks. Or you could come up with a "date" plan yourself. Pick out a movie that you both could enjoy, and say you're dying to see it and you can't get your friends to go for various reasons, etc. I don't know how old you are....any "manly" things you could ask him to do for you in your house? Ask him to make a trip to the hardware or auto parts store with you? Do you cook? Tell him you're just dying for some chili but you always have too many leftovers! You're dying for a banana split at such-an-such a restaurant, but don't want to go by yourself.....etc. These are ideas for after you give him a tad of the cold shoulder for a couple of days and make sure you're not coming across as needy. Good luck! (You also could be coming across as not interested enough!! I've had that happen to me a couple of times. You have to figure out which it is!)
2006-11-09 01:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by carrieinmich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably want to no if you really love him by calling him or no money to call u
2006-11-09 08:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If he likes you he will call you.
2006-11-09 08:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by bestwomanberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him
2006-11-09 08:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by 0110111001101111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll struggle to win ur love... (aww..)
if he doesn't love you, he'll just walk away..
2006-11-09 08:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by emmy_vanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the guy and he will just tell you. Don't be afraid
2006-11-09 08:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Terry G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is any question in your mind that he is playing around with your emotions then he probably is,
2006-11-09 08:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not that interested....otherwise he would call!
2006-11-09 08:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know... Until the "playing" happens...
2006-11-09 08:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sick of this question everyone keeps asking the same things...
2006-11-09 08:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Greek Chick 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋