2006-11-09 00:20:40 · 13 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON AND FIND SOME ONE ELSE ...
2006-11-09 00:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by michael b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't right the first time then it's not going to be right this time.
Feelings of insecurity, being out there on your own, dating again, all these things work on your mind to tell you things were wonderful and you want them back.
People look back on relationships and tend to only remember the good things that happened, the bad times are pushed to the back even if there are lots more of them.
Think about why you split up, the circumstances, the words that were said, the reasons, the hurt felt, maybe even the relief you felt when it was over.
All those things, those issues are still there and your chosing not to think about them.
Twice i've gone back to an ex, and it was probably the biggest 2 mistakes of my life.
2006-11-09 00:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea why you split in the first place, but it's obvious that the person wasn't happy. That's what you need to address, and if you need to make changes in your behaviour, then do so. Prove it by your actions (words mean nothing if they aren't backed by action), and be honest with the person concerned.
Start slowly, ask for a date and be clear that it's just a friendly date, no sex, no arguments, none of that. Just a nice meet at lunch or whatever. Start to communicate clearly with the person and take it day by day. If you are going to win their heart again, you need to be patient.
All you can do is your best. Good luck.
2006-11-09 00:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on they are an ex for a reason
2006-11-09 00:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face why she is/was your ex. Being honest, can you solve that? If so, then work on the solution, and then fix the original problem that lead to the break up.
2006-11-09 00:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by monika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that since both of u r going on ur own ways, its better nt to force him or her back anymore. Look forward =) there r a lot better, I m sure. Juz gif urself some time and do sum tinking.
2006-11-09 00:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is on vacation....that's easy..
If he is permanently gone.....then move on.....you can't love someone who does not love you. You will become a doormat for him eventually...Go out and meet someother guys and you never know that you might hit the jackpot and find someone better! Goodluck!
2006-11-09 00:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by singirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy a stun gun, zap sh*t out of him. Drag him home, tie him up and he's yours forever! Awe Bless!
2006-11-09 00:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by tattooedgray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him or her and try to show that you want him (her) back
2006-11-09 00:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by lalita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for real! move on and find someone else.theres a reason for why you broke up
2006-11-09 00:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont coz they found somebody else interesting.
2006-11-09 00:25:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋