I have a fetish. I get turned on when I see a girl playing with her shoes or dangling her shoe. Like when I'm eating out with my girlfriend, she will sit there and constantly slip her shoes on and off and play with them under the table and I can't help but get turned on by it. I don't know why it turns me on, but it does and I can't help it. Do you think this is weird? Should I tell my girlfriend this, or keep it a secret. What if your boyfriend told you this, how would you react?
2006-11-09 00:15:10 · 18 answers · asked by seanW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, it's not weird. It's quite natural to be aroused by things other than the 2 favs.
I wouldn't tell her about it over dinner, but yeah it'd be ok to let her know. Remember that timing is everything.
I recommend that on one night you not jump into the regular necking and heaving petting. Instead, volunteer to rub her legs. Do a swedish massage on both legs leaving the feet alone. Do her feet and then start caressing her legs lightly ending at her feet. Adjust the lightness on the feet if she's ticklish. Kiss her feet and tell her SHE turns you on. If she's "reacting well" do more things to her feet and see where it goes. Instead of rolling over and going to sleep later, tell her you dig her toes.
2006-11-09 00:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Trailcook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm a guy and that i might nonetheless lose a nut for that, i do no longer % my lady buddy to would desire to stay the the remainder of her existence with basically one foot, a guy can stay completely high-quality nonetheless have toddlers or perhaps win 7 excursion de Frances in case you needed. this is my opinion. I recommend yeah it would harm like a mo fo yet you will possibly maximum probable flow into ask your self and bypass out presently thereafter it occurred so I nonetheless say weigh down a ball. And as far because of the fact the pants flow hells yeah take em off so she will see what she's crushing i do no longer % her to by danger get em the two with the hammer then we would have some actual issues lol.
2016-10-21 12:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by agudelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not weird. Everyone has some sort of fetish. And if my boyfriend were to tell me that than I would probably use it to my advantage. Because I would then know what would turn you on and I would know that would be how I could get things started!!
2006-11-09 00:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by dixie011406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a fetish of some kind, yours just happens to be shoes. I would tell your g/friend! You could have some interesting games happening!
2006-11-09 00:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest it does sound a little strange but at least it is not kinky strange. We are all wired differently and there are certain things that turn people on. I wouldnt say that it makes you weird. As far as telling your girlfriend...I think it would be a compliment to her that such a little thing to her makes you excited. Sometimes it is nice to know from your partner that even when you are not trying to be sexy that you are.
2006-11-09 00:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a foot fetish. It is not exactly common but it is not weird either. If you and your g/f have an open relationship about sex then tell her. Otherwise, next time you are together offer her a foot massage and see where it leads.
2006-11-09 00:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird...it's something that turns you on. I would definately tell ur girl about it...but bring the subject up lightly. Take into consideration that she might not be into fetishes...or that she might not be into that one in particular. But be open with her because even if its not really her thing...she may be willing to "work with you" on it if she knows that it is something that turns you on!! LOL ....and i think its cute too!!
2006-11-09 00:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...it's just a foot fetish. Nothing to be ashamed of. I would tell her. She just may give you the thrill of your life. If my husband told me this.....my shoes would be dangling constantly!!
2006-11-09 00:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not weird at all. If you've been with your girlfriend long enough to feel comfortable telling her, than tell her. If it's still a new relationship, might be best to wait a little while. We all have our "little turn on's". My ex husband used to raise one eyebrow up at me and look at me in a certain way and it just drove me wild. lol
2006-11-09 00:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are attracted to a women's feet. Nothing wrong with that. & hay she might even kno, if she is constantly doing it around u.
2006-11-09 00:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋