I really like her...the problem is it's so hard to talk to her! I have to think of something beforehand, but when I do I really enjoy it. Do any of you guys have any ideas how I can just talk to her without having to think before hand?
2006-11-08 23:45:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her opinion about the war in iraq..haha joke!
2006-11-09 00:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think rather than think up things beforehand, you may want to try and take her with all your friends, where conversation flows freely and you can move in and out. Also, games work well as you dont really have to say anything, but the competitive nature allows you to have a laugh with her without actualy talking about anything besides the game. It should also relax you, and then whatever comes to mind you can say. Depending on your age, a good way is drinking games, always leads to lots of laughs and talking. If you can drink alcohol, try playing the game "I have never", that'll start some conversation ;)
Dan
2006-11-08 23:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and less excited when you are with her. Talk on general things first that affect both of you and later ask her things about herself and finally, say something about yourself too. In this way, the conversation is complete. also, it is not always wise to plan before hand what you want to discuss, let your conversation flow naturally, in this way, you will gain more confidence while talking with her. Goodluck
2006-11-09 00:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn the fine art of asking questions by listening carefully to what she says. For example, she says, "School was so boring today". What do you say? Ask a reporter's question: "Does it always feel like that to you?" That invites her to say more. And this is what you want to do: invite her to open up and talk, which gives you more info to explore with her. Of course, you don't just bomb her with one question after another, but using this technique will help you a lot.
2006-11-08 23:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know what she likes. If she likes music, hit on music. Knowing what you and her both have in common + like. Nothing will stop you from talking bout it. Talk about clothes, shoes, accessories and ask them what you should wear or what they think you ought to wear- best when window-shopping with the lady. Most girls like fashion and of course advising guys what to wear =D
2006-11-08 23:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...for us girls we really get impressed if you guys were like watching the same tv shows, likes the same kind of music(bands), loves movies... we really impressed by that and sometimes we love telling stories about us... and therefore it means that you have to share your stories too.. we appreciate stories like what happened to you dis day or ur childhood memories(especially the funny ones).. be sure to listen to us whenever we are talking because we really listen carefully whenever you guys are talking. and guys take note.. we girls want you to start a conversation!! you boys must start a conversation!!
and be sure to look comfortable and interested whenever you guys talk to a girl.. because we really appreciate it!! get it?..
2006-11-09 00:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share thoughts and conversation that your lady enjoys - that is likely to lead to shared conversation about your possibly shared future.
In parallel, think about your relationship in terms of mechanical transmission - reverse of course is BACKWARDS, neutral is NOWHERE, move into FORWARD without hitting OVERDRIVE!
Rehearsal doesn't always produce a POSITIVE outcome. Be who YOU are.
2006-11-09 00:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by mulroy1563 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
common interests...music, tv shows, a class, a favorite movie, family, mutual friends, plans for the weekend, holiday traditions
2006-11-08 23:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HER. Ask anything and everything about her. She will love you for it. Everyone wants to talk about themselves. And if you are really interested in her, you won't be bored.
2006-11-08 23:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by boracaysun97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What type of things she likes to do for fun.
What types of movies does she like?
Ask her about her family.
Just go with the flow
2006-11-08 23:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋