i really want to make an efort with my realationship and was wondering what i can do to make my man feel special. i dont want the main thing to be about sex it can end in that(lol) any thuoghts please. also things that dont cost to much! thank you
2006-11-08 22:39:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls! Don't you realise that EVERYTHING we like our men to do for us, they enjoy too! You like surprises - so do they! They are just like kids remember. Anything you can think of that you WISH your partner would do for you - do it for him! He'll love it just as much as you would.
Here are a few tips to help you out :
Put little notes or sweets in his lunch box.
Send him flowers or a plant with a little bear in (No really - my boyfriend loved it!)
Get home early one night and leave a "trail" of petals or paper to a candlelit dinner (it's even more romantic if you do it in the garden)
Book into a hotel or cheap bed & breakfast (or lend a friends pad) for one night, pack a bag for him (don't let him see u do it), put it in the boot, get him into the car, and drive! (My boyfriend sent me flowers for a week after that one!) Sometimes just a change of scenery makes a diff.
Run a bath for him and light candles so he can relax. Wash him and dry him. They LOVE that.
Text him (SMS) out of the blue to say "Hi" or "I love u".
Phone him and say "just a quickie to say I miss u", even if you saw him an hour ago!
Hope all this inspires you. Use your imagination. The ideas will start flowing. Don't do it ALL the time, or it will lose the effect. Make him wonder when the next suprise is coming! (PS. The sex gets better too!!)
2006-11-09 01:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last night my husband was working, he was on-call and had been out all night. I'd really missed him and things have been a bit tense and strained lately, my gran's been ill and other stuff and I've really neglected him, and been snappy when he's made an effort. Before I went to sleep last night though, I left a small note on his pillow, it just said, "I Love You x". He got back in the middle of the night and found it. He woke me up just to say I love you too, and things went from there...It was the best in ages!!He woke up with a smile on his face this morning! Didn't cost me a penny! Good Luck whatever you try x
2006-11-08 22:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be different and unique that's all, but at the same time be yourself, try doing romantic things like have all the lights of when he gets home and a path of candles lead to the room you are in where you have a picnic basket with fruit, wine and cheese. ( and of course you) leave sticky notes in places you know he will look eventually telling him how special he is or that you love him, put one on the mirror in the bathroom so he sees it when he wakes up, leave one above the sun visor in the car, put one in his wallet, coat pocket etc, plan little getaways, the park, even a hotel night after a show neway I hope that helps
Peace and Love
2006-11-08 23:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by kalela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
function play, and that would not propose outrageous stuff, merely meet at a eating place, bar, club, coffeehouse, despite you like. type of like possibly once you have been relationship. Make a date. some couples fall out of relationship and it could nonetheless be exciting. pass to a place neither of you has been, or scope out a place you may think of your significant other might like and take them there. Get a lodge room for a weekend, lot of motels have romantic weekend getaways to get locals in. have relaxing and good success.
2016-12-28 16:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this to all this type of questions. If your man is pleased in bed he could live in a dump with no beer and 2c in his pocket with soya as the main course on every meal and with no exciting life.He would still be a happy male and will not by any chance leave you.
All men want great sex.
2006-11-08 22:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't cost anything! Just use a bit of imagination between the two of you. Talk to each other and find out what you both like the most! Then enjoy!
2006-11-08 23:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking, respect, fun, mutual interests, and sex make a relationship special... The little things are the best, not the grand gestures...
2006-11-08 22:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him a nice meal and tell him he's twice the man his boss is. Discuss some of the things you read on Yahoo answers, see what his opinion is on them.
2006-11-08 22:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i share your view, sex is not the ultimate in a relaitonship, you can strengthen your relationship by studying together, visiting places together, reading good book that tell you more how you can enhance your relationship, skirting together, communicating effectively and all the more prayers.
2006-11-08 22:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋