The only thing in my mind is to have a girlfriend. There are 2,5 years since I'm alone and I want to stop this situation. People say to quit thinking about it... that things will just happen. Well... I can't. I dream about this daily. I don't want to be single anymore. Is it wrong?
2006-11-08 22:35:38 · 15 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound desperate and eventually will go out with any1 just because you want a girlfriend. Then you will be unhappy with her, regret having a girlfriend and will then want to be single again. Instead of wishing to have a girlfriend, try to keep yourself occupied and fall in love naturally. Then you will have the best of both worlds, in love with a sincere girl and a girlfirend.
Then it will be something more than just having a girlfriend, it will be having a bestfriend and lover in one :)
2006-11-08 22:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to want to feel loved, wanted and appreciated. I dont know what kind of social life you have, but maybe you could try things where there are lots of people, and meet people that way. Don't go out looking for love intentionally, because it doesn't happen that way. Let love find you! It will happen, one day she will make an appearance in your life and you will just know! don't be in a hurry. Enjoy the singledom while you can! Until then, chin up and good luck!
2006-11-08 22:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be single and trust me i'm not going to tell you to stop looking and love will find you..
Thats the worst advice ever..You cant find someone if you don't look.
Try online dating because bars and night clubs will be full of women you're probably better off not keeping around.
2006-11-08 22:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It isn't wrong to think about it. No one wants to be single. But you have to take your mind off it so you don't worry yourself all the time. If you worry, you won't be able to enjoy life. Just be yourself and the person will come along. Good luck.
2006-11-08 22:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong but just dont wait around for a gf. Women like a man who can still hold his own with out a girl on his arm. Be patient and dont be desperate. You'll get one when you find somoeone who is good enough for you.
2006-11-10 16:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not wrong. Quite normal. I am sure there is a girl out there who is your same situation. Hope you too meet soon. Good luck.
2006-11-08 22:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look like you need to get out and meet people
2006-11-08 22:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...everybody dream abt having a partner.forget abt what others say keep dreaming,cause then when she really comes in ur life u will at once recognize her..
if u need any extra help mail me tonimamasum@yahoo.com
2006-11-08 22:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course it is not wrong to want to have someone of your own, but just make sure you are not coming on as desperate.
2006-11-08 22:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never message me and you are on my mind....what can i do to help you? i check my e-mail every day to see if you have left something there. are you faring well? i take it as a grand "no" by your question...please let me know what i can do
bless you always
Jessica
if you no longer wish to talk to me then i understand, but at least let me know that these are your wishes....i pray for your happiness
2006-11-10 16:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋