What am I doing wrong when trying to meet women?
I am a 28 year old male and I am decent looking and have a good job. I have never been married and have no kids. I am trying to find a nice girl to settle down with and have a family and the only thing I am attracting are females looking for a one night stand and that is not what I am looking for. Also they always seem to go for my friends instead of me. I dont know what I am doing wrong. I am a nice guy and they say that women like the bad guy. Should I switch my approach or what. I need help.
2006-11-08 22:32:34 · 18 answers · asked by NEED HELP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you are trying too hard. Be yourself and the right girl will turn up soon.
2006-11-08 22:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to my world man. I can't get a girlfriend for nothing. I'm in college to be an animation and writer and every female i get a crush on turn me down.I'm also 29 years old and has not been on a date or kissed. I work as a janitor on weekends and i have to watch suckers that are no good at the mall with females that should be supermodels.or suckers that look like homer j Simpson with a girlfriend. While me i gotta be rich with muscles and a new car just get a number or a hello. They turn me down but the next dude that ask them out they say yes and don't have to have nothing.while i keep getting burned turned down.
2014-10-19 09:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mercedes Miles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was meeting women in all the wrong places until I found a Christian singles group that does things together and started running with them. Your woman will show up one night and you will know it. In the mean time, you will gain some friends. My wife and I met at one in a local (25 miles)Baptist church that had a group. It was her first time there and she was from a town 25 miles the other direction. We met and were married 11 months later. That was 10 years ago. Don't worry about being a Christian. If you are not one, that's OK. But you just might end up being one before its over. Godspeed
2006-11-09 06:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by kstfas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop looking for them in bars, is a first thing you can do. Women in bars don't expect the men in bars to be interested in more than sex.
Don't use pickup lines is another. Just don't use them.
Have you tried dating agencies? I know they've been labelled for the 'desperate', but it could work.
Usually, though, most of the decent people get snagged by the other decent people, unless for some reason, that person is busy working too much to notice that he/or she doesn't have a partner (or similar).
2006-11-09 06:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was the same way and I will give you the advice I was given and it helped me. That is you might be looking too hard. I met my wife totally unexpected and it was well worth the wait. I was 37 when I got married for the first and only time.
2006-11-09 06:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may need to look for an older woman because most girls in their early twenties just want a bad boy.
It will be the older women who have matured and grown out the i wanna be treated like s h i t phase.
2006-11-09 06:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is not true that women like the bad guy...perhaps women think that you are too good to be true, or somehow intimidated to you, i dont know, i cant judge you because i have not been with you to talk/chat with,even though you are saying you are decent looking and have a good job, it is not on the look or how thick your pocket is, what is important is the soul within yourself and how you deal with others...
2006-11-09 06:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by sheikaella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There was a lady here that ask the same thing. She looked for a gentleman. Try to hook up with her and tell us how it went.
She is probably on the second page of the questions on this section.
2006-11-09 06:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, honey, if they don't like you for being a nice guy, then they aren't worth having around. Be true to yourself and the right woman will come along for you. I promise.
God bless.
2006-11-09 06:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just take your time and dont be desperate or anything, you rush you crush, God will bless u with one. Your time is not the right time for God, he has a special plan for you. All the best
2006-11-09 07:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by DM FORMULAR 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋