I don't think he wants to be my BF so why does he act like this?

Question

I really think this guy just wanted to be my friend...but he knew I had a BF that I love very much he said he could feel..but he wanted to meet me and said that my BF could come too. I made a some non intentional mistakes calling his name to my BF and sending him the wrong msg..I said sorry and told him I could never love him..but after that he turned wierd..he started to back off but one time I told him I missed my BF so much...and he answered me where are you..I was offline at the time..thats the last I heard..then Igot angry because I felt that he was ignoring me I canceled him off my IM but then I missed him and re added him he accepted I told him sorry it was I was afraid I cared him more than I should and my Bf said I shouldn't talk to him anymore so because I really love my BF I should listen to me. But now I am having some trouble with my BF and I want to talk to him because he is so nice..we were never a couple and I haven't seen him in about 4 yrs. If he doesn't want me for

a GF then why can't he answer me and not hide...he said he could never be angry at me..I just want to talk..thats all

I even wanted him to answer me can he understand why I shouldn't talk to him anymore and to just make a simple answer yes or no..but he won't..

Answer 1

Well you have to make a choice. Either your boyfriend or this guy. If you start talking to this guy, your bf is gonna get mad. Be committed to one person dont confuse yourself. If you continue this confusion you might lose both guys.
The problem is your feelings, be sure of the guy you really want to be with and stay with that person. Imagine if your bf wants to talk to another girl, I am sure it would hurt you. Dont do this to your BF since according to you, that you love him a lot.
Sort out your feelings and choose the guy you want forever and stick to him.

Answer 2

Of course he wants to be your boyfriend. If you love your boyfreind so much why are you so obsessed over this guy?