and my hubby is leaving to u.s (maybe for 2 or 3 yrs),am very depressed and very worried how will i manage things without him?i dont know whether am having any chances to join him after my baby's birth?
2006-11-08 22:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by simplewife20 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
First of all congrats are in order on ur baby bump!! :)
I know how hard it can be when ur alone with a baby!!
If it is unavoidable that he does go away then there isnt much u can do except maybe get him to hold off until the bub is born!!
or
See about going over after baby is born...keep ur chin up hun :)
good luck
2006-11-08 22:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to be depressed, and pass it on to your baby,I know you want your hubby with you being your first baby but you will be fine becoming a mother is a beautiful experience ,take care of your self so that you will have a healthy happy baby.you're a strong woman and will do fine,take lots of pictures and make tapes of your baby and your growth as you get biger, in a year you will look back at this and say to your self ,I was so scared but I did alright
2006-11-08 23:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this is happening 2 u. Think positive and good things will happen. Now the focus needs 2 b on u and the baby. If things work out u will b with him, and I hope that's what happens. Just take good care of yourself and eat rite exercise, etc. Good luck with everything! I'll prey 4 u
2006-11-08 22:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Gijit 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow, that is sad, but you can do it. there are many people out there that are single parents. why is he going to usa now? does he have to? I hope you can go after baby is born, he will be missing the best years of the babies life.
2006-11-09 01:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buck up. i raised three kids on my own...my friend had her second child 2 weeks after her husbands death. i know how hard this is, but this is the time we pull ourselves up by the boot straps and carry on for the sake of our child(ren)...we just have to do what we have to do. good luck.
2006-11-08 22:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you need him and his child needs him you 2 should be the most important things in his life.
2006-11-08 23:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray about it and let if go you need to worry about that baby and you right now. NOT him. His lost.
2006-11-08 22:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by besos 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋