He has searched the house. He has no idea where it is.. or so he tells me.
2006-11-08 22:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by Ger C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Probably just an accident. If it's in the house, it will turn up. We parents really do get forgetful as we age.....
2006-11-08 22:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have lost or misplaced such a thing. I understand you being disappointed and even angry for a little bit but if you read things into it you are headed for trouble.
Resenting him forever for it won't make the tape reappear and if you sulk and he feels guilty and powerless to make things right you both will withdraw from the relationship.
I know you are disappointed but try to get over it. If when you are ready to you could hug him and let him know you believe it was an innocent error and that you are not mad at him it will go a long way toward making things better between you two. Think about it. After burying my parents and in laws all I would advise is be kind, you never know how long you have with them and it would be a sad loss indeed if this is all it took to start a lose/lose feud.
2006-11-09 06:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by iowamystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your father n law have your wedding dvd? not a copy?
he hates your guts its so obvious thats what it means
2006-11-09 06:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderingplz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he needs a hug badly..my guess is he would be feeling pretty low about it. I do hope it is found and that he hasn't taped the football final onto it..lol.
2006-11-09 06:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just that he's alittle forgetful, it'll turn up someday. Mine got lost too, turned up when they moved and were going through everything.
2006-11-09 06:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by oh_what_a_wabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he lost it - and you forgot to make a copy - so both of you were a little careless. I hop he finds it - and if he does - make a copy asap.
2006-11-09 23:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that he's just lost it and is probably feeling terribly guilty about it...
2006-11-09 06:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by nelabis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god guy.. have some trust. maybe he just lost it. old gae n poor memory go hand in hand. n even if he isn't so forgetful usually, still....he must be feeling so guilty
2006-11-09 06:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hates you... Maybe he thinks his daughter married WAY beneath her...
Or he could genuinely lost it amongst everything else... You obviously don't trust or like HIM...
2006-11-09 06:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably an accident...so it means he better get you another copy
2006-11-09 06:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋