i meet this guy a while ago and we started going out and he fell in love with me, but i am not looking for a heavy full on relationship so i told him we are to just be friends, now were just friends hes always wanting to see me and i want my own space which i have told him already how can i get him to back off? pleeeeaassseee help! lol
2006-11-08 22:13:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore him for awhile. If he wonders what is wrong tell him you need your space and that if he's not going to give it to you, then you are going to ignore him. He'll get the hint
2006-11-08 22:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my last boyfriend was like that but he also was over sensitive and cried at the drop of a hat. I broke up with him and I got 10 emails a day (LONG ones too)
I just told him that I needed my own space, I was suffocating and didnt think that he and I are a right match. When it didnt end I just cut ties with him all together
2006-11-09 06:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be empathetic! he must really like you and although his being annoying you must admit it is nice to know someone is thinking about you and caring about you. Sit him down and tlel him that you need some space, do not ignor him or he will just want to see you more. Just explain clearly that you need space and that he is suffocating you. He will get it eventually
2006-11-09 06:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him ur very busy and will go out with ur guy out for a date or out with frnds or with family . just try avoiding him and he will know 4 sure after so many rejections by u to go out wit him.
2006-11-09 06:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by miss_amal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls, tell him you have other plans and leave it at that. Don't tell him where or who you are going with. It sounds more to me that he is trying to be a control freak. I would just keep telling that you have other plans, and if you live at home with you folks, have them tell him that you are unavailable right now.
2006-11-09 06:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL HIM FRANKLY THAT GIRLS Don't LIKE CLINGY BOYS THEY WANT ONLY AFTER THEY HAVE MISSED THEM AND WANT SOME HUMOUR EXCITEMENT SUSPENSE AND SURPRISES AND NOT Always AVAILABLE..... IF UNDERSTANDS OK OTHERWISE TELL HIM TO MAIL AND ASK ME.. IF EVEN THEN PROBLEM IS NOT SOLVED MAY BE ULL LIKE ME,,,, UR SUGGESTION DOUBTS ALWAYS WELCOMED... MAIL ME FOR THAT.... ITS HARD TO FIND THE GUYS LIKE THIS
2006-11-09 06:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Aman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with some else,make sure he knows about it
If he doesn't back off then,get him to pay for a holiday,take your new partner as well
2006-11-09 06:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by salforddude 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ur gonna have to tell him to leave u alone, he dont get it, really, HE DONT GET IT! you cant be nice to those types, you will probably have to be mean to get him to leave you alone
2006-11-09 06:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by my_lyin_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋