today i was really pissed off cause of the circumstances that was happening to me. i won't focus much attention to it, i would go straight to the topic.
today my mom was having nausea and ask me if i want to go with her, by that time i was also with my bf, i decided to be with my mom cause her condition bothers me. so i went to the hospital but my bf left, he seems to be not in the good mood, i can feel it. now we are texting he told me that he was not in the mood, just as i thought. but he told me he is not angry.
now im wondering why he turned out like that, doesn't he understand my situation? i loved him because he is mature when he thinks, but now he's being childish and it makes me mad.
just want to get your opinion on these. thanks guys!
2006-11-08 22:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by jhen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's not as mature as you think he is. Making a decision to help your mother who's obviously ill and worring that your boyfriend getting mad doesn't go hand and hand. Anyone that cares about you is going to care about your issues and what worries you will concern him for you. here's the bottom line in my opinion...You only have one mother but boyfriends that don't show compassion for you and the people you care about are a dime a dozen. Maybe you should sit back and re-evaluate? good luck :)
2006-11-08 22:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
Parents the preciuos gift from God & they sacrifice for us from our childhood to adult stage of life. If they want a little attention from us for them that is the a liitle thing. And i think u do best for ur mom. If ur bf understand the whole thing then why he think so if he is mature.? Have patience if he really loves u then come to back u soon. But if he is selfish then go to him & said if unfortunately his mother suffer from any thing and call him emmidiately then what is his reaction. If he not go for his mother Or if he not then he the biggest selfish person who has not a feeling for his parents but i think he didn't think that if he treat like this as a kid. So go to him & gave him affection & told that he is also important for u but in that situation ur mother is needy etc etc then perhaps his anger go down
2006-11-08 22:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me that he wants you all to himself and doesn't like the taking care of mother thing at which point you need to tell him to piss off and that your mother needs you right now... If he is really mature then he will understand and feel bad for being mean about the whole thing... I mean you would be there for him without a single complaint and he needs to be the same way...
2006-11-08 22:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is being immature. He should understand that your mom is ill and he should even help you out here. Talk to him to make him see reason and please you have to be there for your mom because men will come and go but your mom will always be there for you. Think about it.
2006-11-08 22:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and claim it he should understand the situation after all you were just refusing him there was a solid reason . but still give her chance to think about .
2006-11-08 22:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother needs you right now, she is sick. Your boyfriend can get over it and wait a moment! You'll tend to him when your mother is better. He is being a little bit silly, don't worry, it shouldn't last long!
2006-11-08 22:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being childish and jealous... Wants you to treat him as your first priority... Just ignore him for a little while until your mother is better... THAT is your priority...
2006-11-08 22:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he needs to be act more matured. and understand the situation. dont worry all will be fine.
2006-11-08 22:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear were u are coming from guys are just guys they love u and have there sweet moments but realli they dont understand us girls just like we dont understand them just talk to him and see how he feels then take it from there?
2006-11-08 22:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by hunniswirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels left out
2006-11-08 22:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋