I have seen many times that we make internet friends very easily and chat with them regularly. As the time goes, we feel intimacy about each other with opposite sex. Why do we fall in love with them so easily and trust and care for them even have not met them in person? Why do we share our many personal talks with them so easily and openly which you never shared with anyone else? I have experienced many times and I think most of you also might have experienced the same many times. Will you please tell me the reason?
2006-11-08 21:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by aramaiya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to have to tell you that meeting people on the internet leaves you open to so many risks as many people have ulterior motives. Some like to turn a guy on and leave him cold, some do it for fun, e.t.c. so its always advisable to have an open mind when going into such sites. Remember that everyone on sites are strangers so you don't expect them to just open up to you like that.
Its best to date face to face in real life.
2006-11-08 21:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the internet has opened up a whole new way of beginning relationships. Here's why: When you are communicating with someone on the internet whom you haven't met, it is so much easier to open up and not be as shy as you may be if you just met in person. This enables people to get closer, faster, feelings develop so much quicker and it feels so much more intense because of how quickly these relationships can develop...So I believe it is very possible to fall in love like this, however, I would be very cautious... always keep in mind the possibility of being seriously let down if the other person does not pan out to be who they have portrayed themselves to be.... I have seen this happen to many people. On the other hand, I know several couples who are "soulmates", married and met through the internet. Just be careful, be smart.
2006-11-08 21:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it it is the same reason why most relationships are easier if a little intoxicated. you let go of your inhibitions and go with the flow. Image isnt a big deal, and the truth can be let out. personality is easy to express/show through words then having nerves etc in the way. It is a win/win situation not only can you express how you feel, let out whatever was bothering you but you don't even have to worry about it affecting your daily life, just a click, or name change and poof your questions were answered and you can go on living living life knowing full well that someone out there understands u...(jus, my opinion)
2006-11-08 21:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by wannaBluvd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you actually meet someone you show her your "social" face. You need time and more than a few dates to like and trust her to show your "intimate" face. On the net, you don't go around making mundane small talk. Generally, trusting the anonymousness you have on the net (you may bail out any time you like) you come right to the point where you talk about the "real" you. I don't know if this is better or worse, but it is what it is. If you can make friends with nice people, why worry about it?
2006-11-08 21:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
extra appealing neither, a married lady would be only as appealing as an single lady. a girl's attractiveness does no longer substitute in accordance along with her marriage prestige. Now who's extra available for a single guy is a single lady. And who's safer for a single guy to pursue is a single lady. bear in mind the married lady is expounded, she belongs to a distinctive until eventually extra be conscious, and hence that guy would be properly interior in his rights to avenge and guard the guy who he has poured his coronary heart and existence's capability into...
2016-10-21 12:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you want to believe it's real sooo bad and when your communicating you're hoping the other person really cares about you and it makes you feel worthwhile and maybe even loved. But be careful there are so many nasty jerks out there that are in it for nothing more than wasting their time and being cruel.
2006-11-08 21:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by jojokiowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you go into this situation with an open mind and heart and are also willing to communicate with the person your true feeling.
You are not being judgmental towards yourself or them. Once you have a connection your feelings start to grow, it's when we switch our minds to 'judge' and you meet this person one-on-one, all this positive feelings are turned negative (sometimes).
we as a society chose to be judgmental towards each other.
2006-11-08 21:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even real-life relationships exist mostly in our own heads. we assume they care about us and feel the same way we do, even if sometimes they don't. think of all the miscommunications and misunderstandings that go on in real life... and in real life we probably do less talking, whereas on the internet is all talking.
internet and real-life relationships can be the same way... you both are keeping up the illusion that you're both on the same page, even if you aren't sometimes. it's called "theory of mind."
2006-11-08 21:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simply because we easily trust an "online" friend, because we cn be open with him/her and tell her anything, even the nastiest things we have done, 'cause thata the point, he/she barely really knows you..you really just want someone to talk to, which your "real" friends cnt understand, or ur just ashamed to tell them..
2006-11-08 21:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by ' 'thUgQuEeN' ' 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no reason for chat with somebody and to love somebody.it is easy er on chatting but sometimes it will be not do anything else.i missing my friend to chat with him .
2006-11-08 21:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋