2006-11-08 21:02:10 · 15 answers · asked by swifthorse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I believe its essential to spend some time with a prospective partner whether you want to term it dating or anything else. What a couple needs is some time together in private to get to know each other better. There is no guarantee that the one you are meeting would show his/her true self & not go out of the way to impress. But there are always subtle, unintented gestures, words that would give you a fair insight of the personality if you keenly observe. I'm not a ardent supporter of arranged marraiges, but if thats the choice you have, atleast date a few times & check for some chemistry inbetween. Else you would feel compromised at a later stage!
2006-11-08 21:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether you call it dating or something else, it is important to know each other before you get married. So, any method, that your community approves, should be ahppily adopted by you two to understand each other.
Caution - the opportunity MUST not be taken to be a passport to indulge in something that you are not supposed to do before marriage. In fact, in India, unfortunately, any girl getting rejected by the bridegroom to be would have to get through hell of times because of the fact that there shall be no takers for such a girl.
That way, it will work fine in India.
2006-11-09 05:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing eachother befor wedding is very important....at the same time c that u dont hurt ur parents....if u ve no probs with arranged marriage u can talk to ur parents abt ur priorities and can ask em to give u and the other individual sometime to know eachother..if it clicks u can proceed.....i feel dating is not acceptable by most communities in india...dating to some extent is gud but at extreme conditions one is misusing it by getting physical instead of understanding each other.....marriage is alifetime commitment....never take a wrong step.....all the best
2006-11-09 17:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get into an arranged marriage so your family is more accepting of your spouse and you can discover each other. If you marry a girl that dated you, wouldn't it mean that she might have dated other guys and who knows what happened then!
2006-11-09 05:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its essential,u should know each other that only thing neeed to have & i can say most family dont like it before marriage bcoz they think abt status & repution in market .But after some with 2days generation think our tradition may get changed.
2006-11-09 05:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cyber Crime is Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In India marriages are arranged ones and are decided by the family,though one's likings are taken care of. And these marriages are successsing over ages,so they must be good enough.
2006-11-09 12:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ys goin by 2dayz situation knwin a person is a MUST...If u r too conservative to go on a date thn feel free to keep in touch thrgh phone calls n mails........Tht will b d best solution considerin Indian Attitude!!!!
2006-11-09 05:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Confu$ed G@l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly the trend is coming in india. Pls. watch Vivah it is based on dating before arranged marriages.
2006-11-09 05:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by archana3k1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to know somebody before u marry, cuz the time has changed now and no body does adjustments like people used to do in the past
thanks
2006-11-09 05:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating now adays is essential because girls are working too so you need to know the person with whom you are going to spend your life.yes it does work in india now days
2006-11-10 03:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Indra P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋