I am very much in lust/ possibly love with the lead singer of my brothers band. He likes me alot , he said after a gig he hasnt been able to stop thinking about me , but he has a girlfriend of 6 months, but we had a bit of a snog.
I met up with him once and we had a laugh, and a drink in my local pub, we never did anything though. But that was that and he went on his way. That was a couple of months ago.
I seen him the other week at a gig and we normally have a good chat, but this time he didnt have much to say. I went upto him to talk, and i told him about an audition i had. He wished me luck, i asked him why he hasnt been in touch and he replied "You know how it is"
Would the best thing to do is to stop going to gigs with my sisters, or to stuff it and go and have a laugh anyway?
Should i "wait" and see if anything happens with him and his girlfriend?
HELP ME !!
2006-11-08 20:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by UkDancing_Queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Hes Not A Cheat PowerPuff!!
He only kissed me and doesnt the fact that he has gone back with his girlfriend mean he isnt a cheat?!!
2006-11-09 01:14:05 · update #1
No, dont chase him, in fact whn u see him next speak to him very cooly .No man is worth a chase :))
2006-11-08 21:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you know the answer to this allready. It's NO NO NO NO NO!!!! Put yourself in place of his girlfriend how would you feel even knowing your boyfriend even thought about having "A DRINK" or "SOME LAUGHS" at the local pub with another woman? You know exactly how horiable! And the reason he was standoffish was either because his relationship with his girl is well. Or he had his sights on someone else at the Gig that night and he quickly blew you off as not to ruin his game. I know all to well A. I am a drummer and have been in plenty of bands and B. I was in a very shity relationship with my sons mother for 10 years where deception was like some sick game. But wht a wast of time,life,& energy. And Karma has a strange way of getting you back twice as bad
Please always put your self in a reverse situation and ask yourself would I like this done to me. And look at the big picture Your lust has a potential to break up that band too.
and so on.
2006-11-09 05:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sick As It Gets on my space 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've read it seems to me that he had a crush on you but might be over it now. Unless he's scared to be around you because he might cheat on his girlfriend. I like that he didn't just hit on you while being in a relationship so I don't think he's a cheat. He was honest in telling you that he was thinking about you but didn't take it to the next level. But... why waste time with someone who's unavailable? If it's meant to be, it will be when the right time comes. If you like to listen to his band, go see his gigs. If it starts being painful seeing him and not being able to behave as your heart suggests, then quit. This is what I'd do. Good luck girl.
2006-11-09 05:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bit of a cliche to fancy the lead singer of the band! They usually get the most attention (and they know it so that can make them a bit full of themselves!) He is a cheat, you know how you would feel if you were in his girlfriends shoes and you found out that he had been for a cosy drink with his mate's sister. Not very fair. If he really was that interested in a relationship with you then you would be together by now. Don't give him the satisfaction of chasing him. Carry on going out with your sisters and have fun without trying to steal other peoples boyfriends, it would be horrible to get a reputation for that.
2006-11-09 05:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey forget it, move on he aint worth it....as hard it may feel its totally not worth the hassle or your time.
While your wasting time pining over him you could be out enjoying things and not pondering over him. Keep your eyes peeled for someone else.
Please dont make a silly mistake, plus if he does continue to see you while with his girlfriend then whos to say he wont do the same to you! Hope things go well, chin up babes
Claire x
2006-11-09 05:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by darbys_babbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of hes going to cheat on his current girlfriend with you. He will only do the same to you so I would say find someone else
2006-11-09 07:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun but don't wait around on the lead singer in the band.
2006-11-09 04:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont chase him i'm sory 2 say but if he hasnt been in touch in a while and wasnt his old self with you he isnt worth it and you could find someome much more caring and deserving of you dont wait around 4 him you need 2 move on....I would still go 2 d gigs with your sis and enjoy yourself without him!!!!
2006-11-09 05:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Abi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on and stop chasing him, it's not worth it. Sometimes change there minds they say something but then they change there minds. Plus he has a girlfriend so thats going to create drama. So move on and find a men who is worth it.
2006-11-09 05:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone while his with his girlfriend, if he cheats on her and you get with him whats to stop him cheating on you? Tell him to contact you if he splits up with her. Good luck
2006-11-09 05:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Keira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋