she was talking to me the other day and this happened 3 days ago. she says that part of her want to end but the other part misses me so much
I DONT WANA LOSE THIS GIRL SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
IVE STARTED TO GET A JOB AND FINISH UP HIGH SCHOOL. SHE SAYS THAT SHE NEED S TIME TO THINK ABOUT THINGS WHAT COULD I do to help her change her mind about breaking it off
SOMEONE HELP ME FIND A JOB LOL PLZ
PLZ I LOVE THIS GIRL MORE THAN ANYTHING WHAT CAN I DO
2006-11-08 20:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by seandudczak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't see much of a future with you. The fact that she stayed with you at all does show that she loved you but now she's thinking with her head and what kind of future she can have with you. Without a job or even a high school diploma...it doesn't sound all that great but you can do great by doing both things and getting out there to get a job, an education and your girl back. Tell her that she's made you realize that you need to do this, that you want her to be with you and since what she wants is also for your benefit too...that you'll do it. And then go ahead and do it, don't sit around if you get her back. A good job and a good education will help secure yours, hers and your children (?) future.
2006-11-08 20:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs some security so she wanted you to get a job and finish your education so she can be committed to you. If you really love this girl and want to take care of her and be a responsible human being, you need to start working on yourself. Look for ads in the newspaper and enroll in school. If she's the one for you, she'll come back.
2006-11-08 20:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not finishing school and not having a job just now is no real excuse to break up .so I suggest you give her the time she wants to think things over .But something for you to think about if you marry her and you loose your job is she going to stay with you or move out?
2006-11-08 20:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time out and find out where you can finish you high school even if it is part-time and work the rest of the time. Basically for you to get her back? Take the innitiative and do something about your status. Once she sees that you are making an effort to change your future she will then take you back. Simple and easy.
2006-11-08 20:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jobs aren't that hard to find, look in the newspaper grocery stores are always hiring, go for one of those even if its for a short time. I can't tell if she's doing this as a threat to make you take control of your life or is she just wants to sit back and relax knowing that she can be a homemaker and you can make the dough... Talk to this girl find out WHY. If its stability or if its stupidity...
2006-11-08 20:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your talent and your ability ,find a job ,finish your highschool and be ambitious to do what you decide to do ,once you can trust yourself ,she will trust you too ..about finding a job , noone else can find for you but yourself ,you know what you are good at ,arent you?
I am sure she loves you ,she has been trying to encourage you thats all..and she will be back to you when she finds you mature enough.
2006-11-08 20:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end of the day - all girls need to feel safe. Perhaps it's because of underlying daddy complexes but that's just how it is.
No job and no education is a scary thing - especially for someone who wants to put her life into your hands.
Perhaps you need to step back from the relationship and focus on your job and graduating highschool. Let her be proud of you - and be proud of yourself!
If she really loves you she'll come around.
2006-11-08 20:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make anyone change their mind. she'll come to a decision on her own, and you have to accept that you can't make it for her.
it might be more important to women than men to find a mate who could support himself... i know that's not politically correct, but it turns out we are wired that way by biology.
you should be getting a job and getting educated for youself, anyway, not for a girl. a guy that does things just so a girl will be with him isn't very sexy or appealling.
2006-11-08 20:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school and finish because you want to.Give the relationship time and maybe things will work out. Either way you will be a winner.
2006-11-08 20:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to finish school, and work on yourself.
2006-11-08 20:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋