me and my boyfriend had a fight and i broke up with him over it and i kicked him out. i still love him and im really sorry about it. i tied to get hold of him but he wont answe the pone and when ever i go round there his room mate wont let me talk to him. what do i do??
2006-11-08 20:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by shaneberry22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you sorry for? You asserted yourself. Good for you. Is this how he deals with adversity? Goes and hides? Don't be a door mat because you bruised his fragile male ego. Now he won't respond to you? Boo Hoo ! So what? Don't go chasing after him. No need to feel guilty. Let him wallow in his self pity. Eventually he will get tired of feeling sorry for himself and come calling you. Use this time to sort out your feelings and get your thoughts together. So you two had a fight. That's healthy for a relationship. Clears the air and helps to communicate better. You two will make up and things will be better between you two.
2006-11-08 22:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your case, you need a cool down period for both you and ur boyfriend...after that then have a good talk with him...remember not to give in to everything he say, leave some space for urself, u are ur own maker
2006-11-09 04:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by issac e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him you should pursue to talk to him and tell him your really sorry you were just upset at that time you wrote a letter about what you feel and ask his room mate to give it to him if he refuse ask that person that you really need to contact him and all he need to do is give that letter to him.
2006-11-09 04:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didnt you talk it thourgh in the first place you will be lucky if he contacts you ever again, his ego has been brused, give him a few days to cool down, and contact him go for coffee and listen to him let him do the talking
2006-11-09 04:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky2y 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to convince him and ask him to forgive you. It happens many times in the lives.... Talk to him and ask him to take ot lightly and show him that you realised your mistake.
2006-11-09 04:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait for him after work or school and talk to him. try to explain how u feel
2006-11-09 04:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooohhh... regrets regrets... talk to himmm.... or if he does not want to talk to you...mmmm might as well, learn to deal with it.. am sorry
2006-11-09 04:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time
2006-11-09 04:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋