Love = strong emotional bond you have with another person
Passion = physical bond and attraction
Love = my bf of 7 years, never had sex, doesn't like making out, only sexual interaction we had was me going down on him. But he knows me for who I am and we're great together in other aspects.
Passion = my lover of 2 months, great kisser, lots of sparks and chemistry, I slept with him already. But we're still in the process of getting to know one another.
I know that I'm cheating on my bf (we're in a long distance relationship for almost a year now and I met the other guy coz we had a fight) but now I'm not sure whether I'm with him coz we've been together for a long time and everyone around us thinks we belong together or I do actually love him and we belong together. Is there any way I could integrate passion into love? If so, could anyone tell me how?
2006-11-08 20:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by >(^_^)< 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know the answere to the question! If you have to ask yourself if you are in love , I dont believe you are. The old bf is a comfort zone,and just because other people expect you to always be together , you dont have to impress anyone. It is your life so live it the way you want to and maybe you will find there is love out of the passion . Good luck in the future.
2006-11-08 20:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by highlander3050 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can love my best friend the same way you love your 7-year-bf. But do I want to sleep with her? NO. Without passion why would you want to remain a couple? You're the one who has to deal with him not other people...would you rather spend another 10 years being with him and having affairs only to realise you made a mistake not leaving prior? If there isn't a sexual connection do the smart and right thing and move on...he might find someone sexually compatible with him so you'll be helping him as well.
2006-11-08 20:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in a seperate planet? For seven years u have been together and never had sex, this is absurd?. Usually romance and passion go together, unless one is impotent. No wonder you jumped on the first guy that felt sexually "right" for you. If you still have love for your bf, try getting more aggressive, because obviously he won't.
2006-11-08 20:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know they always say make sure you fall in love with someone who you can have great conversations with but without passion any relationship would struggle. I guess if it was a perfect world we could have it all but its not so what do you want? Which one is more important to you? You did already cheat on your boyfriend and that is the one sin that will break any good thing in two so well I say you already ruined the good thing with him. It comes down to one thing in life yourself. What do you want? Good luck :)
2006-11-08 20:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by hollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have it my way ?
I would just go with what i believe in and do what i really want to do. Since i never get to do what i want to do. It's always there way! That's why things never really turn out the way i want.
It will only work if you both agree.
For me i just need someone to look after me and give me all that i want.
Or else i would just dump him for not being good to me.
He has to ask you........
Or else he'll never know........
Don't make a big issue out of private matters because you can't unlock and break the privacy rule.
2006-11-08 20:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was almost in the same situation. you cant go on cheating on your bf. break it off and you will feel so much better. you cant cheat and hide it. you need to try something different if you were driven to cheat in the first place.
2006-11-08 20:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Krystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with love, you know he'll be there for you in the long run, passion just likes to get w/ you.
2006-11-08 20:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world should you choose.
they come both together, yeah its posible.
I hate the way you CHEAT ! Shame on you.
You want to get your partner some disease ?
You want to hurt his feelings ?!
I want this to happen to you one day.
try cunnilingus, you will like it
2006-11-08 20:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY GO WITH PASSION. LOVE IS NOT SO SWEET YOU ALWAYS GET HURT.
BUT IT IS ALL UP TO YOU.
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-08 20:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hotrod Hoender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not faithful. Enough said?
2006-11-08 20:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋