I just came back from my vacation. Now I am back in college at my dorm. I don't know why I am feeling so scared to face everything alone now. Being with parents I feel so safe, everything is there for you even for emotional support. Being away from them I feel down, insecured. I am missing them so much and can't concentrate on anything else. Please some advice!
2006-11-08 20:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anne H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe this happens often when you have a very close family. I KNOW it is common to feel exactly the way you are feeling. You would be surprised if you knew how many students around you are going through the exact thing you are. Remember this: As time goes on and you hang in there, you will build inner strength. This is something you will need very much in your adult life. These things (feelings) happen to us for a reason - to prepare us for life ahead. I promise you one day you will look back and be so thankful and proud that you endured the pain you are enduring in your life right now. You will feel strong, you will be naturally more confident in your life. I wish you all the best, and God be with you. Don't be afraid to share your feelings with your family - they certainly will be supportive if they know what you are going through. Be strong!!!
2006-11-08 20:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy school life. Focus on your lessons, meet and hook up with friends, get a social life. The sooner you get out of your comfort zone and begin discovering independent life, the better!
2006-11-09 04:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by aquamike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a journey of life...
everyone will face similar condition when they grow up.
may be is not the same way as you.
but years-to-years, the human emotion will more and more complicated. even you stay with parents, they can't help.
Just face it..
2006-11-09 04:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by putu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are home-sick and misses your parents so much...
but in time, it all gone with resposibility and challenges that you have to face during college so that will keep your mind at where your feet is...
u can phoned them up whenever you miss them, no big a deal...
2006-11-09 04:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by neeenooongneeenoooong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to grow up. your parents won't be around forever. you have to learn how to deal with the world and real life situations. challenge yourself everyday: go to library, go eat lunch by yourself, join a club, just get out and do something. you're just lonely and need to make friends. it will be okay.
2006-11-09 04:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋