help please???
2006-11-08 19:37:41 · 23 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your self in hand before the date.. Your not in love, your in lust.. Keep in mind that everyone you come in contact have aids and is out to kill you til they can prove differently.. By than you will know if you really want to have something to do with them or if they are just a passing fancy.. Ask yourself if you would like your daughter to act like you..
2006-11-08 19:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by denfasr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you drink alcohol when you do this? If so, stop drinking. Half the world wouldn't get laid without alcohol.
If it's not that and you don't have a problem with sleeping with different men, just be safe. If you feel bad afterwards for doing this then you need to look at why you are doing it.
Is it that you fall for someone who is giving you attention or makes you feel pretty or interesting? Perhaps you need the self esteem boost and don't even realize that's why you do it. You may like who you are in general but have a need to be loved so much that you use sex to get it. Unfortunately, the feeling doesn't last too long and any high can be followed by an extreme low. I don't know how you stop yourself other than working out why you do it and being aware of it, so you may not cloud your judgement as easily.
2006-11-08 19:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that anyone can easily fall in love. Love is a process that takes time. I think that you fall in "lust". Some people have a higher sex drive than others and need it more. If this is you, you should consider looking for a long term relationship. If you are the type of person that enjoys having casual sex than go for it, but be safe. Use protection and don't feel guilty about doing something that you like. There are a lot of people out there who do only want casual sex and not a true relationship. Maybe you say that you "Fall in love easily" to justify the sex. Either way, stay cool and enjoy your life. We only get one shot at living.
2006-11-08 19:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
seems like you have little confidence in yourself..and therefore your comfort is going to men and feeling love from them by sex. Although what your doing in your case is not real love. I suggest really think about the situation,write about it in a journal or something..and write what you really what in life,and your goals in love,and maybe how you can achieve them. And i really doubt any of these guys help with love in any way. Find a hobby to keep you busy..and the best tip is,if you cannot have true 1 on 1 conversation with a guy that you cant tell almost everything to,DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM THEN!
G'luck!
2006-11-08 19:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three things are happening here. You are seeking a father figure, you have low self esteem and you believe having sex with a man is a form of gaining their acceptance. You need to first know you are a person of worth and that handing out yourself out in such a superfluous manner is disrespecting yourself. One help would be to find books written by strong, independent women and find out how they became that way. Another is to seek advice from women that are older and you respect and lastly....know that in the long run this will harm you emotionally, mentally and possibly even physically. The last thing you need to be in this day and age is a crazy chick with an std....too many of them already. good luck.
2006-11-08 19:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT falling in love.....you crave the attention of guys. You will do anything to please the guy so that he wants to be with you.
Start thinking more of yourself and then don't NEED a guy to make you feel special. Guys won't feel you are special...they will think you are easy.
You don't know what real love it. Real love doesn't involve falling quickly in to sex.a
You have infatuation confused with love.
2006-11-08 19:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's ok with falling in love easily. The thing is you may have high sex drive. Anyway, you might need to respect yourself more by trying not to get laid easily. If you need love, don't use sex for getting it. However, if you need sex, go for it and no need to regret. Have fun!
2006-11-08 19:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can I have a date with you?!! =p
2006-11-08 19:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Yo Bro.. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
easily falling in love for a guy isn't a bad thing, i mean its almost normal coming from lot of prospective of girls, but having premarital sex often... that's a problem!!! ever heard of the word promiscuous, its a sickness known for continues craving for sex... maybe a therapy or psychiatric help will help you recorver.
2006-11-08 19:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you're getting good at what you're doing...nothing worse than getting a reputation as a slut, but the guys you sleep with think you're a boring lay! Then you just become a sperm bank!
2006-11-08 19:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋