I have been dating an older woman for a couple months and I think she is great inside and out. She's even worth introducing to my family. I think about sex alot with her but she hasn't given me a subtle sign she is ready. Should I tell her straight up what she thinks about sex? Also she was divorced awhile ago say 4 years.
2006-11-08 18:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you showed her any signs of wanting to have sex? maybe she is thinking the same about you. Maybe she dont think you are ready. You need to talk to her about it. If you feel uncomfortable talking with her about it then you should not be having sex with her anyways. Just talk to her about it. Be nice about it too. Just lead to it. Maybe make out for awhile and try to unzip her pants or something. If she stops you then you know.
2006-11-08 18:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After just a couple of months you may feel like you know someone but you really don't. I wouldn't move to fast if I were you. Older women have larger sex drives and believe me if she were wanting it she would come and get it. Be patient and I promise if and when it happens, it will be well worth your wait. wink wink
2006-11-09 02:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could make a move when the atmosphere is right such as after a candle dinner for two or a romantic evening or day together and see how she reacts.she could be thinking of the same thing but has no guts to act in a way that tells you that she is up for it.
2006-11-09 02:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by sherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating an older woman for a couple of months and sex has never come up ??..
That is very strange...
Something is seriously wrong ....
You need to get her off in a quiet intimate setting after dinner
and a few drinks and start kissing & fondling her...
Push it to the limit...
See what happens...
2006-11-09 02:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she cheating on u
i hate when women act like there coochie is a prized item, and u have to be rewarded with it
thats blackmail, they gotta stop playing there games.
2006-11-09 02:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to her first about it...maybe she is ready but is just waiting on u...
2006-11-09 02:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is on the mature side, so treat her as such.. let her know how you feel and then she will tell you her side... no games , just straight talk... God bless
2006-11-09 02:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if you can't talk to her about it your relationship is not ready for the next level
Good Luck
2006-11-09 02:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. i think asking her straight to the point is a very good idea.. if she agrees, then go for it... if she declines, then respect it.. goodluck...
2006-11-09 02:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by pamz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her inside ur rum and spread her legs and start bumping her...she'll love you even more!
2006-11-09 02:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥switie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋