So me and my boyfriend both took a purity test for fun. you know the ones that ask a bunch of sex, drinking, etc questions. His score was pretty pure, mine was rather unpure. We've been together 5 years and he knows I would never cheat. Would this bug you out? He looked a little perturbed.
2006-11-08 18:01:30 · 16 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May be you took the test sincerely.. !!!
2006-11-08 18:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're going to put yourself out there for eachother, you gotta be ready to hear the answer. After 5 years you'd think all the ghost would be out of the closet by now. If you haven't been truthful, I could see how that might lend it'self to some concern. If it was one of those test you take in a Cosmo magazine...I wouldn't take it too seriously. I usually see that kind of stuff as entertainment at best...not a liptness test for my life or what kind of person I am.
2006-11-09 02:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. If you both took the tests seriously, then I might be a little bit nervous. But, I wouldn't really worry about it.....unless the girl showed signs of cheating. Then I'd be nervous. I don't know. You can never trust anybody these days!
2006-11-09 02:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I;ll bet that you were a little more honest on the test than he was.
Or maybe you are wildier than he thought you were, but I'll also bet that is part of what attracted you to him in the frist place. see lots of us guys want to meet a girl that is a little wild, but then after we know and start dating them we want to think of them as pure and all that, so dont worry, he will get over it, and you should be the one who is wondering is he too enough for you. or are you going to be bord with him.....
2006-11-09 02:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that if he has been with you for 5 years the results of your test should not have surprised him. If anything he is probably insecure about the way you feel about him because he feels different from your past. I doubt if he was that upset... besides, men don't want their ladies to be THAT pure anyway... always a double-edged sword for you. If he is upset then try to talk to him about it, but never be ashamed of your past! Good Luck.
2006-11-09 02:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship work on trust, so maybe he still have some issue with it...but try to hint to him that u are pure...and tell him that he should believe u and u should believe him, or else the relationship will crumpled...trust issue very important
2006-11-09 02:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by issac e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just dont take any of those tests with anyone around and you wont have to explain anything. the tests are meaningless and the ones that make them up dont know as much as they want you to think they do.
2006-11-09 02:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt bug me one bit. after 5 years you should be able to trust your partner
2006-11-09 02:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girl. we all like a naughty girl. if hes that pure, dump him. get yourself a matching naughty boy to spice things up a bit.
2006-11-09 02:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to school .... there is no such word in English as unpure, there is a word impure. I'd put up with you for a millisecond, bye
2006-11-09 02:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋