But your boyfriend/girlfriend is at work and only let the person stay cause they were intoxicated and the ex would be gone before they got home from work.
2006-11-08 17:59:37 · 21 answers · asked by sweetie1995 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It probably wouldn't bother me if this is the same type of concern he/she generally showed toward everyone. If it wasn't, then I might be suspicious a little but would still try to trust him/her. If there is trust to begin with and it hasn't been broken there would be no reason to worry.
2006-11-08 18:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wasn't too drunk to find her way to his house. she could have found her way somewhere else. This would not be cool at all. either she is his ex or not.
I am not saying they did anything.........this time, but what precedence is being set. so everytime she gets drunk she shows up at his house.
if u have ever had an ex there is only one reason to find them when ur drunk. u want back together with them or a piece of tail.
I would take a break from him maybe a week. tell him u want him to be sure of what he wants and it will give u time to reflect on this. don't tell him how long the break will be.
the point to this is if he loves u then he won't let this happen again, if he he thinks he could lose u. be calm about the whole thing don't lose ur mind (if u stay calm he will take u seriously)
this is bothering u or u wouldn't be asking. u need to make sure he understands its either u or her. DON'T force him to deciede let him make the choice.
2006-11-08 18:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very uncomfortable, but as long as the ex was gone before the person gets home from work - then it's all right. I wouldn't let drunks drive - no matter who they are.
2006-11-08 18:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pretty upset. I wouldn't go too crazy though if the person was gone before they got home and it was for a good reason, but I'd be questioning why on earth didn't they find somewhere else to go.
2006-11-08 18:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Angie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how long I was with my bf and how much trust was actually established between us. I would definitely tell him that if he wants to be with me, she can't be coming around anymore for any reason. She has no real reason to be around him anyway except to perhaps cause problems between you. If he allowed it to happen again, I'd be gone, but I'd make sure he knows ahead if time that I consider that unallowable.
2006-11-08 18:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel that it is time to move on....You do not go to a whore house to drink tea.........Perhaps it's me but I can not understand why he would have her over getting drunk. I would ask him to reverse the situation and how would he feel if your XX stayed over because he had too much to drink. If he is honest, I do not believe he would think it was okay. Ultimately, it is up to you, you know your boyfriend best.
2006-11-08 18:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by dogloverdi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief sweetpea, don't walk from this relationship...run.
This is 100% unnaceptable. If this guy cared a rats rump about you he would never let her stay there under any circumstances. Move on! You deserve better!
2006-11-08 18:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed..What is she doing at his house sober or intoxicated? I would advise my man to call her a cab next time.
Redgirl
2006-11-08 18:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by redgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depend on the relationship your and him has with her now, if there is some kind of feelings there between them then i will be worried but if not and she respect that your and him is in a happier place than she and he was well it is ok, but still things have a way of happndin just keep your eyes open, good luck
2006-11-08 18:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by imjustagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF they were gone before i got home from work, i would assume it would be alright.. But i'd still be annoyed.
2006-11-08 18:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋