should i tell my adopted mom that i want to try and find my parents or should i give up she is very loving but theres a hole in my heart and i have a son that is very sick and i don,t know how to help him and he needs a new lung but i can,t help with that i was born with only half of one so please help me
2006-11-08 17:52:26 · 8 answers · asked by dar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Explain that you want to find them for medical reasons. I don't think it is wrong for you to want to find your biological parents and I think your mother would be fine with it. She loves you and she would never want to stand in the way of your happiness. Take care and I hope you are blessed with a lung for your son. God Bless you.
2006-11-08 17:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would you prefer most? Your adopted mom who cared for you, accepted you into her family, loved you like any other mother would do or your real parents who just gave you away just like that. I guess you should be thankful, because if your adopted mom didn't take you in a long time ago, maybe your real parents could have left you in the streets to live with the poor people. Continue loving your adopted mom, I'm sure she can help in some way. I know she loves you so much and is willing to help.
2006-11-09 04:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Marc G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to do it with you you dont know how she is going to react and it would be a hard thing to say if i was you i would write to her take it to her and stay while she reads it. You are not going to love her any less and if there is a chance this could help your son dont let it pass by. I am sure she will understand write your true feelings let it come from your heart she knows you well and she will realise you are feeling deeply about this. And for her to help you do it would be better so you have some support in case you find your parents and things for what ever reason arent good,she will want to be there for you.Best of luck and well wishes to your son
2006-11-09 02:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you do this for your heart....You tell your mom now that you love her in every way ..And you thank Her in every way ..But you did not give your self up they did and it is in you to no who you came from and who you are a part of ...Do this for your self alone it will help heal you....Your Mom knows that their will come aday when you will ask to do this and She has had a long time to no what to say to you....God bless your Son and may the Lord Heal Him and shine his light own Him...And Bless you through your journey....
2006-11-09 02:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by patricia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you explain to your mom that you have to find your biological mother for medical reasons she may understand, assure her that you love and respect her
2006-11-09 02:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they adopted you they new this day would come i think they would under stand good luck
2006-11-09 03:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by candy babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your mom would understand that you would want to find your biological parents. if i adopted a child i would definately understand my child's feelings to find where they're roots were.
2006-11-09 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you the best be positive
2006-11-09 03:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋