just backed off and cut off all contact with me and he hasn't messaged or text me in a while...(2 weeks) I don't get it...what's going on? How can you give someone so much attention then all of a sudden take it all away?
2006-11-08 17:50:17 · 19 answers · asked by c@ramel_m@mi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just call him and ask?? Maybe he got real busy, maybe he found someone more interesting, maybe he's gay, maybe he heard something weird about you, maybe he's waiting for you to call him. There are a lot of maybe's out there, but you won't know anything until you ask him.....just ask and if he doesn't respond to you, then move on.....
2006-11-08 17:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. All I can say is that he must have met someone else and finds it difficult to pay attention to you and her. At some point you must realize that since you are not with him in the flesh where he can't touch you, smell your perfume, or see your smile, that he will forget about you with time. Don't waste to much energy trying to contact him, it doesn't work. I am sorry you have to go through this too.
2006-11-09 02:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. the same thing happened to me. i texted this guy and didnt hear from him (no text in reply) for a week. which was VERY unusual. so i called him up and left a v-mail to call me back. he did, and i hope things are back to normal between me and him.
but dont wait for him, just call him and ask him how he's doing and that you havent talked in a while. maybe he's been very busy, maybe he's seeing someone else. either way, you need to know the truth or at least get some closure. just call him!
2006-11-09 01:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must of heard something about you. Check the grapevine to see if there's any rumors going around. It could just be that he's lost interest or feels akward about a situation between the two of you, but I'm willing to bet it's a rumor.
2006-11-09 01:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a man is in no position to commit to someone else (know what i mean?), thus as pleasurable as it is to welcome the attention of a "sweet little thing" (something not realized until after a little communicating) it has to end and there is no good point to do that nor is there an easy way.
(he should have waited until after the boot knocking)
2006-11-09 02:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Al 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you were too easy of a "conquest". He was doing what you let him do without passion on his part.
Check out your next relationships and keep what I said in the back of your mind..If I'm wrong so be it...if I'm right...change your approach.
Good Luck!
2006-11-09 01:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have said sumthing which hurts him loadz and thatz the reason of him avoiding you. Ask him. Or bad comes to worse you ignore him too as you were juz flirting with him...
2006-11-09 01:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe someone told him something about you or your did something that totally turned him off. Not worth your time sitting here writing on yahoo questions about it. I cant really answer your question without more detail. I'd move on, he is not worth it if there isnt anymore chemistry
2006-11-09 01:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by L I N D S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserved what you got for flirting. All you do now is wait for him to come back to you. But while waiting, keep on flirting others so you wont waste your time.
2006-11-09 02:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by x b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my experience when this happens he's just too busy with school and work. only other thing is something about you or his past scared him off from you. all you can do is met him somewhere. if you go to school with him find him and ask him.
2006-11-09 02:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by dabluschmosprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋