what should i do cant sleep in whole night
2006-11-08 17:47:26 · 18 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Me no understand.
Peace
2006-11-08 17:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have dumped the previous relationship thinking that the grass might be greener on the other side huh?
Well you made vows to your new wife...I think you should do your best to honor them! If you feel like you can't move on maybe you owe your current wife the courtesy of letting her know your not whole-hearted!!
You probably realize what a wonderful women your ex is and maybe its your own guilt eating your sleep!!
If I were you I would create a pet name for your wife as to not keep offending her!!!
If my husband kept referring to me by another women's name I'm afraid I would have to make him remember the hard way!
Good Luck and try to remember the good qualities in your wife ....if your can't give her 100%...do her a favor and don't waste her time or dreams!!!
2006-11-08 17:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I have never married, this happened to me once. I was engaged and kept thinking of my ex. So I speak from experience.
Don't call your ex, because this isn't even about her, strange as that sounds. All you are doing is remembering the good times, and not the things that caused you to end the relationship in the first place. It is a Pandora's Box that should remain closed.
So what is the problem? The problem is that there is something not working for you in your current marriage. Something that is effecting you, and something you felt you had with your ex. The trick is finding what that something is, and talking with your wife about the problem you need to sort out. Because you are calling her by your ex's name, you could explain to her what is happening and reassuring her that you don't want to be with your ex, it is just this one thing that is bothering you.
2006-11-08 18:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to go home, to the xwife, you should not start somthing with someone until you were sure that the feelings were over with the first wife there things do happen. think next time.
2006-11-08 18:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by imjustagirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go hunt up your Xwife and give your present wife a chance to find someone who will care abpout her.
2006-11-08 17:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over your ex, or go back to her. It must be awful for your current wife being called the wrong name, knowing you're thinking of your ex all the time. Give the poor woman a break.
2006-11-08 17:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Question asked by a screen name Sandy? Ugggg
2006-11-08 17:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you moved too fast. nothing you can do about the first wife, so you need to justify the one that you are with to yourself mentally in order to accept the replacement and move on.
2006-11-08 17:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Al 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a problem. Sounds like you will be sleeping on the sofa and making your own sandwiches.
2006-11-08 18:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by no nickname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u were married a long time its normal to say ur xs name not sleeping is likly another problem need to see your dr.for meds to help you sleep just dont take them for very long
2006-11-08 17:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by purple_puma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You probably need to work on remembering your current wife's name.
2006-11-08 17:49:53 · answer #11 · answered by Katherine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋