Most people tell me to not look for a woman and love will come naturally when I am not looking. How does that work?
2006-11-08 17:39:54 · 6 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just does, my friend.
You can't explain it. I'm sorry.
But I'll attempt to...
I think that if you keep trying to look for love, it will seem so much longer and more strenuous. Looking so hard will just result in false hope.... false love.... FORCED love.... in a way. It's like you're trying to push yourself to find that one person.
You should just relax and have faith in God to bring you that woman. He has a plan for you.
In my case, I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time. I've gone through many jerks... but he was always there. I never looked for love. It was just so disappointing. I enjoyed life being single. Besides, I was happy not having relationship drama. I had faith in God. Little did I know, my boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time. And we plan on getting married someday. : }
2006-11-08 17:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm,,,u know wat,,it'll be love find your way..as they always say loves moves in a mysterios way..sometimes it comes in a moment u never expected..u can just feel it..but sometimes u have to b really sure or curious on what u feel u might not know u just keep in waiting and trust it to fate yet you've already lost it..
2006-11-09 01:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by cj r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because love itself is unconventional...if it all happened according you plan..nice and orderly..i think centuries of human beings would not have spent time contemplating the confusing aspects of love. it's an illogical thing, and it'll hit you at the worst times, or just random times..and it will hit you fast...atleast after the realization..it's a strange thing..a powerful emotion.
2006-11-09 01:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if you are looking for someone, no one will be good enough except that ***** that has that one thing that drives you crazy.. except that you didnt think of, but if you just chill all the time, and meet someone naturally, and just fall for them.. you actually like them, not just you think you do.
2006-11-09 01:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how that works--but if you feel like you love someone go for it, oh i wish i had someone love me
2006-11-09 01:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by heynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-09 01:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋