2006-11-08 17:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best advice I can give on this is that marriages are not perfect but i can tell that my friends marriage is more blessed, powerful and stronger than most I've saw becuause they waited. Its not that God is not wanting you to to enjoy yourself, He's trying to prevent you from so many heartaches and problems that you can't see or understand. My friend and his wife I don't believe will ever know haft the struggles that alot of couples go through. Also if you wait God says He'll give you the desires of your heart. If someone tells you not to wait, they are living for the world and the truth is not in them! They are Liars. I did not say it.... God did!
2006-11-08 18:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2006-11-09 01:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I was not expecting everyone to say yes to this. Life is too short to not fully enjoy yourself. If you are in love before marriage why wait? sex is an amazing thing between two people who care about each other. I don't want to die wishing that I was able to experience more... I am going to die happy and satisfied!
2006-11-09 01:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it's worth it after, because the man starts to love you even more and falls for you and can do anything, because you guys are married, but if you have sex before marriage, then sometimes one or the other person regrets it, but if they're married, then no regret, and more love between the two. hahahahhahahaha
2006-11-09 01:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by santy_kushwaha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! Definitely wait! It is wonderful to be a virgin when the big wedding night comes.... what better gift to give your spouse than the gift of your untouched body. He/she will be the luckiest person on earth, especially since this is so rare these days!! HTH
2006-11-09 01:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Francis Jane 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
YES! it is! It will be so much more special .. and after all why spoil the surprise? Like opening presents before christamas,when it's christmas at last you feel dissapointed cos you know what ur gonna get
2006-11-09 01:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by rahrahblank 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's not really the point,the point is to find the right person.once you find the right one for you,then you will know it was worth having waited.
2006-11-09 01:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait. If I'm going to buy a car I'm sure as hell going to test drive it first. And that's a car!!!! I don't have to spend my whole life with a car whose performance isn't up to par. And yes: There ARE people who suck in bed!!!!!
2006-11-09 01:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may be worth it but i want to know how he slow roles it before i commit to him FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!. hell it might be the worst sex ever so then you will have waited all that time for NOTHING and be so disappointed.
2006-11-09 01:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by sweettee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes!it even gets better knowing that you kept yourselves for each other only.you avoid many heartaches and insecurities that come with sex outside the bonds of marriage.
2006-11-09 01:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by sherie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋