My boyfrend&I are back with each other after 3 years of break up.we started talking again since a month ago,& now he tells me that while we were not talking he was talking to another girl who loved him but he did not give her the chance to say that. he had told her that he loves someone else. after we started talking again he told me that he stoped talking to that girl coz i might get offended,so i assumed that he blocked her from his MSN buddies list.he just told me again that she send him msges but he doesnt respond her now,but did not blok her.all of sudden he cant stop talking to her for no reason.he cannot tell her about me for some family reasons.when i found that he has not blocked her while i was assuming that he has blocked her,i felt bad.he swears that he doesnt love her,but he just was talking as a friend.i think that there is something cheesy going on,but he claims that there is no one else except me that he loves&he wants to mary me in future.what should i do? trust him?
2006-11-08 17:29:32 · 6 answers · asked by applegoogle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TRUST is one of the key factors for any relationship to work. If you feel that you cannot trust him because you also have a basis for doing so, then being in a relationship with him is not meant to be.
I just have to share this one. The last relationship I had was three years ago. This ex of mine is now married. There were instances when he would text me and I ALWAYS bring up the subject of his wife to let him know that he cannot fool me with his words.
And whenever an invitation for a coffee would come my way from him, I ALWAYS reject for the simple reason that if he can HONESTLY swear that he can tell his wife about it then I can say for sure that there is nothing more to the invitation.
But knowing him, I know that there is more to it.
BOTTOMLINE: If he is more afraid to hurt the other person's feelings that yours, then you can say that he does not really respect you and your relationship...
2006-11-08 18:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend has had a few deficient stories ago with females. That's unlucky for him. It's now not going to be amusing in no way being relied on by way of the person who claims to like you such a lot. I'm certain he'd now not find it irresistible in case you felt that method approximately him. Perhaps through the years he'll be trained to believe you if you do not play video games together with his middle and you are sincere. If now not...it is as much as you whether or not you'll be able to manage the skills of now not being relied on even whilst you recognise you should be.
2016-09-01 09:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dotn trust him unless he is willing to TOTALLY give up the other girl, even as a friend. Normally it is ok for guys to have female friends, but those two were too close and it sounds like she at least still has feelings for him.
If he really loves you, he will give her up. He can always rekindle a friendship later, if that is really what it is
2006-11-08 17:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by bambi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was being discreet with you and with her. Why should you trust him? Seems cheesy to me.
2006-11-08 17:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Something is going on. If you feel it, it is.
2006-11-08 17:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your feelings...
2006-11-08 17:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋