My best buddy is doing his mother in law and thinks its a big victory .?

Question

His wife is in the last stage of pregnancy...do I tell her whats going behind her back ?

Just worked it out this ways...I warned his mother in law that if within 24 hours she did not go back to her home...I would personally call her husband and tell all . Since she was in a shock that how I came to know this....I told her that her son in law is bragging about it all over the town .She has fled this morning...now...that stupid freind of mine has no idea what happened and the wife can have a peaceful delivery

Answer 1

This is a sticky situtation indeed. I certainly would not say nothing at this point in her condition that's for sure. I would consider speaking to her Mother. Geesh..... where did morals and standards go? What kind of a mother would do this to her own daughter? I would talk to your buddy and thraeten him if he continues you are going to let the cat out of the bag. Tell him it is morally wrong and he is not holding up his vows he took when they were married. I would tell the girl but, not til about 2 months after she has the baby. Her body hormones should be close to normal then. She may not even believe you unless you get proof or a recording to his admission. This certain is no man i would want to be married to. If he does this to her now if will keep happening. History always repeats it's self unless something is done to change it. He certainly is not on my good side and neither is the mother..... shame shame shame on her!

Answer 2

If I were in your position I would definitely tell. That is so wrong. I feel sorry that you know that kind of information. You are only hurting his wife more by keeping this from her though. Especially with her being pregnant so I would definitely tell. Her mother and husband are definietly not doing right. If he thinks it's some kind of victory then he must not really love his wife all that much. If the mother just keeps pursuing it right along with him then she must not care for her daughter to well. Don't keep this from her tell her. Good Luck

Answer 3

I shudder to think what this world is coming to. I'll suggest you talk to your buddy, threaten that you'll tell his wife. If he doesn't stop then go on to the mother in law, tell her you know all thats happening and that you'll tell her daughter (and her husband) if that doesn't come to a stop immediately. I dont think telling your buddy's wife will be the right thing to do because you're not only going to break your friend's marriage but also his in laws' family as well. Think about it..

Answer 4

If he's willing to bang his M-I-L then who won't he? It's in the wife's best interest to know about this now. Not after he's come home with an STD that could potentially be transferred to the baby.
She needs to get away from this guy and her mother BEFORE she has the baby. I hope you can be a good friend and support her emotionally, she's really going to need you!

Answer 5

That's a tough one. It's actually none of your business to tell the wife but you can't just stand by and watch either. You need to have a serious talk with your buddy and tell him that it's just not cool and he needs to get his act together before that poor little baby comes into a very messed up family. The other thing you can do - if you are comfortable enough - is to talk to the mother-in-law in private and tell her you know what's going on and that you can't stand by and watch. Tell them both that if they don't change things or tell the wife/daughter about things then you will have no choice to go to her yourself. You have to talk to them first though or it will make things VERY hard to deal with. Your buddy will tell you that it was none of your business and doesn't involve you. Be careful how you approach it.
GOOD LUCK! Hopefully things get cleared up before that innocent little baby is born.

Answer 6

The man is a freak, and an ahole. Poor wife, poor child. This man is to be a role model?? I think I might be sick.

Tell the wife! Even anonymously. But she deserves to know what kind of a man she is married to, so that she can decide if she wants this man to be a father to her kid.

Answer 7

No, she doesn't need any stress.
Your friend is going to lose his wife, without you saying a word. The mother-in-law is low-down, she's the one that's going to tell. You continue to let him know, he's wrong for what he's doing, and he's going to have to answer for this.
Lies don't stay hidden to long, they always have a way of coming out.

Answer 8

tell your buddy that wat he's doin is REALLY WRONG, convince him to stop, and convince him to confess himself to his wife, if he does not stop and wont tell within a limited time, u can go ahead and tell his wife, becuz it is the right thing
everyone has a right to be informed of wat's wrong, better now, then NEVER or too late
yea let the wife born the baby, and look at her happy new family, while not knowin the dad is rotten scum bag that doesn't set a good example for his future kid...-- talk to your buddy, then the wife

Answer 9

The guy and the mum are both in the wrong and need to be found out. Unfortunately its going to be heartbreak all round anyway. Maybe instead of confessing yourself you should put them into a situation where they are forced to come clean. That way you cant shoot the messenger

Answer 10

Give her some indications,and ask her to just watch out,that would mentally condition and prepare her atleast a bit for whats going to come her way .. a few indications now and then would help !