now the problem is that i know this girl for 4 years n we were soo inlove now like 6 months back she said she dont have same feelings for me , she lives in paris , i live in uk , i told her dat am coming to meet u but she dont want me to come , now iam goin to paris tommrow n she dont know am coming , should i go & meet her or not ? coz she dont wana meet me .... i dont wana face me may be coz she is afffraid or some thing ... we had wounderfull times togather but i dont know wat happned ... she went though tough times but i was always there for her but why did she throw me out of her life like dat ,,, n now i feel like am having mentel problems ,,, i tried to move on really i did but i cant without knowing wat happened n wats wrong ... can u people tell me wat to dooo ??? i liked the answer of ally_da_cat .... tell me wat now ??
thanxxx
2006-11-08 16:38:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While you are there, call her and tell her you're in Paris. Tell her that you would like to talk to her. Have a meetig place in mind and tell her you will be there and how long you will be there. If she comes then talk it out, if not send her a goodbye letter. Good luck.
2006-11-08 16:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At the end of the day you have to remember that you's ovbiously met online etc and that you's haven't met face to face.
Ever thought maybe she isn't who she says she is and now feels guilty so she is pushing you away?
I don't want to dishearten you because you obviously feel for her but to be in love you really need to meet face to face ..
MY ADVICE: Move on, what happens if you go and meet her and even if she is who she says she is - what if the feelings aren't the same? Won't you be hurt that you have been mislead by feelings for 4 years - ecpessially if you are feeling like you have mental problems !!!
:o) Keep smiling and someone will come along for you !
2006-11-09 00:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi Atiq, I;m real sorry that things didn't work out for you. Atiq i wouldn't go to paris,did you very think she is with someone else!
after reading what you wrote,i really think she has someone else. If you go, you will look like a dum-a s s. Save your face and move on and find someone who really cares about you. Really you will be alot happier. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-09 00:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should go see her... really, that is the only way u will know what is going on and will b able to clear things up for your self.
if worst comes to worst it is then over, but u can enjoy paris! : ) and move on without regrets.
2006-11-09 01:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to Paris, have some fun, but stay well away from her. You really do need to accept she doesn't want to see you, and move on. If you persist, it borders on stalking.
2006-11-09 01:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything...She already told you that she didn't want to meet so leave it at that. Go to Paris and just enjoy your trip.
2006-11-09 00:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you need to go so you can close this chapter of your life and move on....do not go expecting a joyful reunion but be ready for the fact that she may have someone else...good luck
2006-11-09 03:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave it alone and move on. Chances are she has another guy and he's possible living with her. You shouldn't go an see her, it would just cause more heart ache than you need.
2006-11-09 00:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't go to meet her she has said she doesn't want you to go there so why are you going,just leave her alone she has made her feelings clear and you seem to be making her life more difficult!
2006-11-09 02:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you but it's over. she has made it painfully clear that she no longer wants to be involved. she probably has a new love but doesn't want to tell you. you are not having mental problems. you are just hurt and searching for answers to questions that may never be answered. please respect her wishes by not going to meet her.
2006-11-09 00:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋