I straight up told a guy at work how i felt about him and ever since we have been talking and recently we excanged numbers i told him i would call him so my kids dad didnt throw a fit if he called at the wrong time and i called him last night and he said he would call back in a minute and he never did so i tryed him like 20 minutes later and he didnt answer and today at work he smiled at me but didnt say a word not even bye when he left why is he so wishy washy?
2006-11-08 16:37:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's just not into you. Which we both know is his loss. I am sure there is a better guy around, take a look. Remember, you are the woman so you have all the power.
2006-11-08 16:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be feeling a lil uneasy because of the fact you two work together then again hes a man and just might be being an asshole you never can tell.Ask him about it! Tell him that if he didn't want you to call he should not have given you his number! I would wait a few days on that though he may have a reason you never know some people are just funny about things and well everyone has past issues that cause them to act a certain way.It also could be that he feels uncomfortable about the babies daddy getting upset about him calling you thing I mean do you live together still if so theres your answer No man wants to get into that sort of situation would you want to get into something with someone when your not sure if they are finished with the last thing they were in?? I know you wouldn't and also Even if hes an ex if he is getting upset over other guys calling then this guy might not want that sort of drama either you have to look at the situation as a whole and I don't think you've stated all of the facts I believe you thought you put in the important key factors but we don't usually think of what we might be doing to cause a situation.You've got the answer yourself you just need to ask yourself a few questions and the answer will come to you on your own!! good luck to you Hun!
2006-11-08 16:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by witchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't call because he has respect for the relationship your already in. I doubt he wants in the middle of you and your kids Dad. Sounds like your married or at least living with someone (you didn't mention that to us)and he did the right thing. If you are in a relationship with someone else you just showed him you are not to be trusted. If you'll mess around on one guy you'll more than likely mess around on another one and he knows it. Sorry, I'm sure that's not what you want to hear but it's a fact.
2006-11-08 16:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up. Just like you said it here.. I have a feeling that he may not really be interested. It may be because there is another man in the picture. And it may be best for you if you got the other one out or made it clear that you would be seeing guys (not knowing the situation, of course).
2006-11-08 16:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not want to get tied up in any DRAMA. You certainly must have your reasons for what you do.... so I don't judge. However you must understand that your kids father is still around and you don't want him to throw a fit. The other guy is not the one for you right now. It would be to much work for him to be with you. he is gone! but don't worry there are plenty more guys out there. and many of them like the kind of work you represent.
2006-11-08 16:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but your first mistake was telling him how you felt.Maybe you should back off and if this guy starts calling or coming around maybe he does like you.Don't be so eager,it could make you sound desperate.Play it cool.Do not let him use you.Alot of people if they know another person has feelings for them,sometimes uses that person.Be careful.
2006-11-08 16:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, maybe he isnt interested. Are you still with your kids father?? If so, if you want to date other people you should break up with him first. Also, if this guy doesn't like you, don't take it to heart, there are plenty of fish in the sea!!
2006-11-08 16:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kids dad? sounds like you two live together. maybe you led him on. if this is not the case then he is just using your energy to make him feel good for the moment. guys are dorks like that sometimes.
2006-11-08 16:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Dont force him. He needs some space to accept your offer. If he doesnt react after a few days then he isnt interested.
2006-11-08 16:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a problem with your kids etc and that their father still obviously lives with you
2006-11-08 16:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋