i did some mistake which hurt the guy unpurposely.i'm willing to make it up to him but he refused to forgive me.so we talk and he start to use violence towards me.
2006-11-08 16:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, if a person TRULY loves someone then they will respect them enough not to hurt them physically.
2006-11-08 16:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, if he uses the words "refuses to forgive", he probably really really never will. Some people just dont have a forgiving spirit, and cant leg go of things, so the word "refuse", yea, he means it, you'll always be guilty in his mind,.... which takes us to the..... SECOND point, he starts to get violent, that's your other sign.....BIG sign.....girl, you need to turn and RUN. This guy spells trouble all over, and all I have is your question to go by....
But, I was with a guy for 9+ years, he did that **** to me. Never really "beat" me, but he shoved, threatened,put total fear in me and pointed a knife to my face, right between the eyes....and kept me believing he loved me sooooo much, but, a few mistakes I made, yea, he so threw them in my face.....over, and over, and over.......etc.......and over....(am I making my point?)
There is nothing like "experience" that can help other people.
Please, let this dude go on his merry way.....he....it....none of it ,is worth it
2006-11-09 01:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by harleylover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Violence has nothing to do with love. Get away from this guy. Now. And be grateful that this happened before you got any deeper involved. This is not the kind of relationship you want.
2006-11-09 00:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by coffeytalk.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man who truly loves you would never lift a finger at you. I think once a man hits, he will have no problem doing it again. DONT EVER let a man tell you that you "made" him hurt you. NO women ever deserves that. let him go NOW. there are plenty of men out there who will treat you much better. My BF and i have a deal. If one of us gets real angry, we will have a "time out" than later we can sit down and calmly talk things thru.
2006-11-09 00:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you truely love a girl, you will not dare to take advantage of her. But there are some aligator, who will do anything to get the lady.
2006-11-09 01:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man loves u he will never hurt u in any way he will try to work things out in a manner that will not hurt to me a man that will hurt u and then say that he loves u is not a man hes a boy and he dose not love u at all he is just useing u
2006-11-09 00:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost, forget about him.
I'm available also so it's ok here, lol
But seriously, don't stay with him because he will never change he is a coward bastard that should be beaten up
2006-11-09 00:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by speedster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real man would "Never" hit a Lady. Only cowards do that sort of thing!
2006-11-09 00:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away from it and get on with your life .If you just let it go i'm sure he will get over it .
2006-11-09 00:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget him
2006-11-09 00:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by !kyradarkmoon! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋