okay so this guy Jerry asked me out a week ago and at the time i thought he was kind of annoying, at times his attitude bugs me, but he was really hot so i gave him a chance. Well somtimes he is all ike calm but other times he is like crazy and hes really into god and like his christian music sounds so boring and gay and sometimes he just bugs the crap out of me and i would rather be anywhere but sitting next to him, its kind of embarassing cuz hes so loud and says the wierdest things, like "hey thats brocks church, say hi to brocks church everybody!" i was like wtf so yah i dont know if i should keep going out with him or dump him cuz i guess he like rly likes me and couldnt sleep last night cuz i didnt hug him... wierd yah! what should i do!!
2006-11-08 16:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way...Think you answered your own question. If that's the way you feel about him...do you think it's gonna change?
Don't think so!
2006-11-08 16:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like being with him, and his attitude sucks, then dump him.
He is not the only hot guy out there. And just because he likes you, doesn't mean you should like him back. Save yourself the heartache and potential future issues you will have and get rid of him and find someone else.
Find someone that has the same interests as you, that you are not embarrassed to be with, and that you are not justifying things or making excuses to continue hanging around with.
I'm sure there are heaps of girls out there who dated a guy because he was hot, only to find he was an absolute jerk and treated them like dirt, stole from them, tried to change them, or worse.
2006-11-09 00:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept him for who he is and his likes!
Be friends and keep it that way if you can't see being in a relationship with him. Don't hurt the guy.
Nowdays it's a good thing to see people be into religion with all the problems going on these days! This is positive for you--------things could be like many others complain about, their friends drinking, into drugs, etc.
You should realize how fortunate you are to know a Christian and he is a good influence, my Dear! Try to see his side of things ok?
2006-11-09 00:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't like him...spare yourself from being shallow and let him go in a nice way...hopefully you two can still be friends. It's better for you to do this soon rather than leading him on which would only hurt him.
2006-11-09 01:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Keona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.what's the point of being with the guy when you can't even stand him? Ya...he may be really hot and all but what matters most is how you feel about him and his overall personality. You don't sound too happy being with him anywayz.
2006-11-09 00:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by celine_csk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that way about him u need to get out now not latter when it will hurt him more go 4 some1 that u like and dont bug u he is not the guy that u want he will get over it and find some1 that will like all the things that u dont
2006-11-09 00:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you're not into the guy then why keep dating him. obiously looks count but its not the major thing in a relationship, if you have nothing in common then the relationship wont work and you'll just keep getting annoyed. End it and explain the whole situation. find yourself someone you can really be yourself and have many things in common
2006-11-09 00:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him because if you don't want to be seen with him then you are just judging him by his looks and that would hurt his feelings it would hurt my feelings if someone thought that I was a nerd but they asked me out because of my looks.
2006-11-09 00:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by smart smart. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are confusing him liking you with you liking him. Just because he likes you doesn't mean that you have to go out with him. He is obviously not one you want to be with. Out the door with him!
2006-11-09 00:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to change the person he is...if you don't like him, move on and hopefully you will soon find someone that you really like.
2006-11-09 00:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋