I have been dating a guy for 7 wks. I started dating him soon after a 7 mth open rlshp with a guy who was seeing other girls at the same time. I broke up with him bc I couldn't handle the fact he was sleeping w/ someone else at the same time.
Anyway the new guy is a mutual friend of a good friend of mine. He is sweet, caring and honest. He told me he loves me (already) and asked me where I see this rlshp going. I haven't said I love him (bc I don't right now) and I told him I honestly don't know where I see this rlshp.
But it is not like he is smothering me. We talk every couple days and go out twice a week. i don't think I am over the other guy who hurt me etc. But I don't want to break up with this guy (the guy I'm dating). I don't know what to do. Is it bad he likes me more than I like him? It isn't a rebound rlshp I know that.
2006-11-08 16:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BWAAHAHAHAHAHA....Oops sorry, I am just wiping the tear from my eyes from laughing so hard. You are with a nicer guy than the loser you were with before! Don't let go of a good thing--this new one adores you. Now excuse me while I go back to laughing...BBBWWAHAHHHAHAHAA!!!!!
2006-11-08 16:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill... just go with the flow and don't worry so much about it. If it's right or not you will know eventually. The best way to screw something up is to try to hard to control or understand it.
Contrary to popular belief, no two people can feel EXACTLY the same way at any given time and that is OK. When my GF and I first got together I was on the other side of things sort of (I thought she didn't love me as much as I loved her) but the fact was that we basically just process things differently. Now (5 years later) we are planning our wedding and we just laugh about how insecure I was in the beginning.
The start of a relationship is supposed to be the most fun part, so just relax and ENJOY IT! :)
2006-11-08 16:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the guy knows your just coming out of a relationship, you just have to ask him to slow down, that you enjoy his company, an like him but not yet in love , to soon, an he just thinks he is in love , with you , sometimes we hurt so much an so easily to block the good one away from us, what I'm trying to say girl don't build a wall. where no man can get close to you because of another guy, because think of it this way, the guy that you just broke up with he is happy an enjoying his life, an not giving much thought about you, , so hold you head up pick up the pieces , an move on don't keep crying over spilled milk, leave the past in the past, enjoy your self with this new guy , but make sure he knows that you don't love him an your not ready for another deep relationship, . it will be OK, just keep it real
2006-11-08 16:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bosha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to rush anything...just tell the guy you are dating that you really enjoy his company and you want to spend time with him. After a while you will know where your relationship is going. If he likes you a lot he will be willing to give things time, after all nothing good is instantaneous, especially in relationships they need time to develop. Good luck and don't get in an open relationship again, all that does is get you hurt, both emotionally and could hurt you physically with all the diseases going around out there when people have multiple sex partners. If it is truly a relationship there is no sleeping around with others. Shows no respect!
2006-11-08 16:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him can you just be friends for a while .your emotions are all askew at the moment from your previous realionship breakdown. after a couple of months dating this new guy you should ask yourself if you could manage without him in your life ,if you tell yourself no. then tell him you're ready for a deeper relationship with him
2006-11-08 16:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick to this guy...he sounds like a good person...forget about the other one,he's obviously an *******,he didnt care about you,come on,open your eyes,he was sleeping with someone else at the same time he was with you.
2006-11-08 18:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow,, as long as your being honest and not trying to take advantage of the situation, let nature do its thing and take it slow and easy, and no its not easy getting over someone who crushed your world and your heart,, thats why the go slow and easy
2006-11-08 17:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep dating this guy. Who knows-he may grow on ya?! lol
At least he's not hurting you, right?
2006-11-08 16:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are being honest with him about your feelings . I think you can talk to him and rewally explain how you feel and he will understand.
2006-11-08 16:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋