i have a boyfriend that lives far away and i dont really ever get to see him, and i like some guys at my school. and since i cant just drive to see my bf becuase i am not 16 i never see him! should i just go for the guys at my school?... and how do i know which of the guys that i should go with...i have 4 guys that want me to be theirs!! please help!!!
2006-11-08 16:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by blonde brunette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should take the guys at school because you actually get to do some boyfriend girlfriend things and eventually you guys will break up because you guys live far away and that will mean that he or you will find someone else and if you don't dump him he will dump you. The guys you should go for is the one that has all of the things that you desire which one do you want to date and which one do you hate just think of which one you think will have a longer relationship with you and it will all work out just follow your heart and do what you belive you should do.
2006-11-08 16:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by smart smart. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard especially when you a certain age. You still young and in school. You shouldnt be in a long term anyway. Test the waters cause theres so many sorry guys in the world date till you find a good one. Go on a date with all 4 see which one you feel more confortable with but my big thing dont string the long distance thing along. If you dating other people tell him so he can do the same.
2006-11-08 16:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I have the same problem but i'm 19years old and my boyfriend was serving time in Iraq :-( there was alot of temptation! I didn't go into it tho.I t was only for 6 months that I had 2 wait for him 2 come home and it was worthed every month :-) haha but ur soo young honey and if u got 4 guys that really like u and ur boyfriend isn't tryin his best w/the long distance then let eachother go :-) have fun dating seriously u'll find a great guy like ur boyfriend maybe again ur young and u shouldn't be tied down like that @ that age! take care and I hope this help good luck muah :-)
2006-11-08 16:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything without breaking it off with your long distance boyfriend first. Two timing somebody will come back to haunt you 100% of the time. As for knowing what kind of guys to go out with. Pick ones that like you for you, and be very careful because there are the type out there that will use you,
oh and avoid the Jock types they're nothing but trouble (of course i do have a bias against Jocks since I was geek but...)
2006-11-08 16:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Graham S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is too difficult. It puts restrictions on any relationship that you shouldn't have to deal with at your young age! I would say go date others...You must be a cutie since 4 others want you to be theirs, just be careful cause you know SOME not all, guys have their mind on one thing if you know what I mean. Take care!
2006-11-08 16:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date....you have more than enough time to get serious when you are older. It is hard to have a long distance relationship when you are not even 16
2006-11-08 16:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young... take your time to explore... if your not even 16 dont bother wiht the pains of long distance.... take it from me, its only worth it if you plan on marrying him... thats the relationship that i am in... its hard... good luck...
2006-11-08 16:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by GeT_uR_oWn_LiFe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are luck you have 4 guys and then one, I don't even have one!!!
2006-11-08 16:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋