He says Im too good and cant handle it....is that true? Does he even care?
2006-11-08 16:18:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your bf seems don't care and can't be bothered to chat with you awhile more. He's just too lazy & selfish!
2006-11-08 16:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the falling asleep, it's the rolling over. You have to train him. Are you being satisfied? If so, you should stay together caressing each other and both fall asleep. You can't do this with condoms, and don't even try because you'll wake up when he falls out and the condom will be inside you. Risky. A good reason to make sure neither of you has a disease and it's a stable relationship. Also why married sex is better. It's his instinct to pull out, roll over and fall asleep. That's the brain chemicals released. But you can teach him not to, and he'll learn to enjoy it more than before. If he's on top, rub his back lightly and slowly from his shoulders to as low as you can reach and back up. Or learn to stay coupled and roll over so you're on top and have him do the same thing to you. Or if you already were on top, straighten your legs and have him pet you. But he has to learn not to separate and roll over. Once he does, he'll enjoy it more. If you're using condoms, you're just sh-t out of luck. But if you aren't using them now, that's the way to go.
2006-11-09 00:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand your question. But I feel it is a guys duty to satisfy his partner during any sexual act both mentally and physically and you should do the same for him. I think it's rude if he falls asleep right after and doesn't treat you well. I would feel used. The only time I'd allow him to fall asleep is if we fell asleep holding one another or if he was just really tired but still sweet to me. That is a different story. Just don't let him use you. Equality and respect are number one in a relationship, otherwise it doesn't last.
2006-11-09 00:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh!! you must be real good then. to make a guy fall asleep right after sex. sex does take up a lot of energy but to think of it again maybe he lacks some stamina.
i didn't understand when you say does he care. care about what.
i must say it is insensitive of him to sleep right after the intimate moments.
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2006-11-09 00:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by nexus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way hun..... do you really care? your getting yours outta it, so what if he falls asleep.... do them same. Take a nap before anything else that day has to happen. Hell, enjoy it! For the next what, 20 mins... hes not bugging you and you get to enjoy actually sleeping next to him. Seriously..... take advantage of it.
and I know guys have trouble talking but have you tried asking him?
2006-11-09 00:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Krustybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be joyful because it is YOU who cause him to fall asleep. That means both of you are enjoying a great sex
2006-11-09 00:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Larisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont do that i cuddle up with my love and than fall asleep
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2006-11-09 00:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by kenneth_mcdonough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is the majority of men do this. I dont know why maybe releasing sperm is like a sleeping drug and knocks them out.
2006-11-09 00:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy. we always fall asleep after sex reguardless of its quality
good or bad we're sleeping after we're done
2006-11-09 00:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by always right 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes done, he wants the 2 best things before bed a pillow and a soft matress
2006-11-09 00:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋